I was in the hospital for several weeks while my doctors treated me.
My wife was supportive, came to visit, etc. Was there for me.

When I got home and was inpatient, same thing, except she stated smoking again and is hitting the bottle pretty hard. Saying "who's gonna take care of me"

This is killing me as she is putting back a bottle of wine a night. She is also driving after drinking.

It seems like she is doing this to get attention.

I'm scared. Not only for her and our lives. Anyone out there go through this?