Some of you may remember me from this gem:

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?p=2670283#post2670283

Well, im back. and im a moron.

I got into a serious relationship with a girl, we dated for 3 months. I am normally an excellent judge of character, but this girl's entire life turned out to be a lie. For the entire 3 months, she was telling me she was a virgin. She was also on birth control for skin treatment reasons. I ended up COMPLETELY trusting her. Finally, the moment came, and we had unprotected sex. Afterall, it didnt seem necessary to wear rubber since shes a virgin and on birth control, and i just tested negative a few weeks before we did it.

Time passes by, and I found out she cheated on me with two different guys within 3 days on a trip out of town. I end the relationship immediately. I find out she had unprotected sex with one of them. I spoke with him, and he says hes clean.

This however, just proves she was NOT a virgin and I have no idea how many partners shes had.. based on how easily she screwed them, I am assuming its a large number.

This is by far the worst thing anyone has ever done to me. I feel violated and destroyed. The HIV paranoia is returning. I am completely losing my mind.

a virgin on birth control?:dizzy: sorry, that just jumps out at me.
i think you know the routine,odds are you are ok but you know there was a risk and you already know about the facts. more then anything it shows you that you need to be more careful with people because a majority have selfishness and trust issues, at least thats what i have found out the hard way more then once. just don't beat yourself up over it,its not your fault what someone else does but learn that you need to keep your guard up better thats all. good luck

Take a test to be 100% sure and next time be a little more careful. And by the way virgins can be on birth control for heavy bleeding and cramps. (personal experience)

well learned your lesson think about your family now you will be ok.think about the kind of support you are seeking everywere you can get from your family who do not know about these things happening,trusting on these kind of dating is certainly a thinking issue you will end up repeating things,wish you good luck with your recovery this time.

Take a test to be 100% sure and next time be a little more careful. And by the way virgins can be on birth control for heavy bleeding and cramps. (personal experience)
i didn't know that fact amber,but it just jumped at me when i read it.
my red flag would of been hoisted up the mast when i would of heard that.
when something doesn't make sense most of the time its not true.
and in this case that seems to be the fact.

It's okay. I know when you see virgin+birth control it doesn't make much sense. But when I was a virgin and on my period I would bleed very heavily and I had cramps out of this world. So I went to my Dr and she presribed me birth control and said it really works.. I thought yea, whatever, but it really does. Shocking, I know. lol

It's okay. I know when you see virgin+birth control it doesn't make much sense. But when I was a virgin and on my period I would bleed very heavily and I had cramps out of this world. So I went to my Dr and she presribed me birth control and said it really works.. I thought yea, whatever, but it really does. Shocking, I know. lol

Also, I know MANY girls who go on birth control to regulate skin problems such as acne.. very common. That was her excuse.

Also, I know MANY girls who go on birth control to regulate skin problems such as acne.. very common. That was her excuse.

Yep! It's true. Many people think that women only use it for pregnancy reasons and that's not always the case.