You girls are in my prayers. I just don't understand why it is those who go through IF and finally get pg have to go through such heartbreak. I am praying that you will both heal from your losses and you will soon receive the joy you both deserve. We are here for you both.
Jill

Jill great thread.:)

Cmarie I am praying for u sweetie I havent been able to get u out of my head ever since reading ur post last week.I just cant imagine what u are going through.The only thing I can do is pray for ur little angels.I read in ur other thread that baby A is doing great I am so happy.Just know u DH and those babies are in my thoughts and prayers.:angel:

Carisa sweetie I am so sorry u and DH have to go through. Like Jill said we going through IF should not have to endure this heartache.Well I guess no one should have to go through the pain of m/s.Anyway u are in my thoughs and prayers and so is ur little angel.We are here for both of u.

(((HUGS)))

Mapia:angel:

Carisa and Cmarie~

Just a note to let you both know you are in my prayers. Sometimes all this IF stuff makes no sense, and then to suffer the unmentionable heartache you both are- it boggles the mind.

Please know that we are thinking of you constantly. I pray that you both gain the strength you need to get through each of the trials you are going through.

Take care!

Laurie

CMarie and Carisa - You both continue to be in my thoughts and included in all my prayers. I'm still in such disbelief that you both have been dealt such heartache after an already painful struggle with IF. It makes me so incredibly sad.

CMarie, I'm going to pray you are given the strength to get through the very difficult next few weeks, and I will have little baby A in my thoughts constantly for continued health until delivery.

Carisa, I know that Friday will be a very emotional and difficult time for you. Please know that we are here when you need us and we are so ready to support you. I know it is hard to hear now because the pain is still so fresh, but it is true that time will help your broken heart.

(((hugs))) to both of you. -Kari

I can't really add to what the others have already said, but I definitely echo it. You both are in my thoughts and prayers. It truely doesn't make sense why anybody should have to suffer this kind of heartache, but please know that neither of you are going through it alone. We all love you and grieve with you.

Many many hugs,

Holly

Girls, I'm just echoing everyone else's thoughts. It's just so unfair and you both deserve better. It's absolutely heartbreaking to think that good women who deserve healthy babies have to be put through the wringer. You are both very strong women who will get through this though.

Carisa, definitely thinking about you and wishing you didn't have to go through the D & C. Hope that you enjoy your much deserved vacation afterwards.

Cmarie, I'm praying that baby A continues to grow and be strong and that you find some comfort in the knowledge that at least you have that baby to hold onto and love, so something good is coming from all of your struggles and heartache. It is more than most women could endure.

I hope you both find the healing that you need. Please keep us posted, we're all thinking of you both.

Hi Carisa and Cmarie.

It's at times like this that IF makes me so angry and sad. When i think about you both and what is going on in your lives i just find it so hard to believe that you struggled through IF and now there's more to worry about. it just seems crazy, unfair, maddening. and yet you both seem to be in control, making decisions, moving forward, being positive. you are such incredible women! i pray that you can get through these trying days and then find happiness somehow.

Carisa- I feel so bad you have to go through a D&C. But i saw your other post where you already have IVF in your mind for the summer and I am sure that will be your lucky ticket to a baby. Hold on to hope and faith.

Cmarie - your story is almost unbelievable. it takes my breath away if i put myself in your shoes and that tells me you must have the strength of a superwoman to be making important decisions in this situation. i am so sorry your conjoined twins will not make it. i know you must be in incredible pain. i am praying that all is now right with Baby A and that this baby will go to term and be healthy and you will get a precious little bundle to love forever.

Girls you are in my thoughts and prayers every day.

Words can not express the gratitude I have in my heart for all of you ladies. You warm my heart and ease my pain with your kind words and encouragement. This board has been my backbone through my entire struggle with infertility and now continues to be my shoulder to lean on through this even more difficult time in my life. I honesty thought that all the struggles and heart aches where behind me once I got pregnant, I guess I couldn't have been more wrong. You are all so right, I have to just hang on to the possibility that Baby A will stay strong and I will hold him/her in my arms in 7 months. I love each of you like I have known you for my whole life, I can never repay for all you have given to me!!!!!
love,
cmarie

Carisa- you will continue to be in my prayers and I will hope that your heart can find peace soon. :angel:

Carisa and Cmarie,

I also wanted to express how much you have both been in my thoughts and prayers. I wish so much that neither of you had to endure all of this. Your strength and courage is an example to us all. You both amaze me. I really do hope that some day very soon all these difficult times will just be a memory and replaced with great days consumed with being a busy mom. Cmarie I am praying so hard that baby A will be just fine. Know that you can lean on us anytime, we care for you both so much and I really do hope happier times are ahead.

Kathy

I'm so thankful that I have this board to talk about my feelings. People here in the "real world" don't quite feel my pain. I know they are there for me, but it's not the same. I will be talking to them on the phone and they will stop to tell me about something cute that their baby just did, and it makes all this pain that much worse. Don't get me wrong, I don't wish IF on anyone, but it just makes the sting that much stronger when they are constantly talking about their cute little ones while we are in the middle of talking about my D&C, my miscarriage, or my next IVF cycle. It's just so hard on me. I wish I was stronger in that area.

Just to update you all, my D&C was changed to tomorrow morning at 10am. I just want to get it over with. I'm am very scared of going under again. :dizzy:

Carisa

Carisa~

You will be in my thoughts for your D&C tomorrow. I am certain all will go well, and this is only a means to your miracle.

You are in my prayers!

Laurie

Oh Carisa,

It is really true that the real world can be very insensitive to what we are going through. They simply just can not comprehend it. You are strong and anyone would have a difficult time hearing people talk about their babies especially right now with what you are going through. It does not make you a weak or bad person just human. I think that is why I isolated myself during that time. I don't recommend it though I don't think it really helps but try to talk with friends and family that can be sensitive to what you are going through and support you if you can.

Hang in there!!

kathy