Carisa I just want u to know u will be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow.I will pray for u and ur little angel.I am just so sorry u have to go through this.No one should ever have to go through this but unfortunetly lots of women do.I am sure all will go well with the surgery but the emotional part will be so hard.Well sweetie have a good night and know ur family is in my prayers.

(((HUGS)))

Mapia

Carisa, My heart goes out to you and your DH for your very painful loss. I will be thinking of you tomorrow and praying that you are given the strength to get through this very difficult time. Please when you feel up to it, let us know that you are okay and how you are doing.... we will all have you in our thoughts. Gentle (((hugs))).

Carisa

I am so sorry you have to go through all this. Its not easy....something which helped me move on when i m/c was the feeling that now my angel baby was in heaven taking care of me and DH. Also i would not have wanted to have an unhealthy baby coz that would have meant that my baby would have to suffer for the rest of his/her life.
I am praying that the procedure will go on smoothly.
Give yourself some time to grief....but don t give up. You will be a wonderful mother ..........
(((hugs)))

Amy

Hi Carisa,

I hope you have no pain during the procedure today. Your in my thoughts and prayers and at least this part will be over. I agree with Amy that I too found comfort in knowing my angel baby was in heaven. It is hard b/c you grieve but don't get to have the closure of a funeral so I took my positive HPT test along with a poem that I wrote my angel baby buried in and planted a pink dogwood tree there. It just makes me feel better that she ( I think it may have been a girl) knows I did not forget her and when I make it to heaven one day she will be the 1st one I will be looking for to finally meet.

Today will be hard but you have been so strong through out all this your going to be ok.

((HUGS TO YOU SWEETIE))))

kathy

Carisa thinking about u sweetie.Hope all is well and hope to hear from u sometime today.

(((HUGS)))

Mapia

Hi Sweetie,
I just want you to know that you are in my prayers and thoughts all day today. I am hoping that everything goes smoothly for you today and you will have a quick recovery. We are all here for you and praying for you! :angel:
Love,
cmarie

Hi Carisa.

I hope today went ok for you and you are home resting and recovering. I was thinking about you today when i was with my mom and i told her about you and she just shook her head and asked me why we are all suffering through IF and then more grief on top of it. she just doesn't understand why these things happen to good people. i told her we're all the strongest women we'll ever know and we will all persevere until we get what we want. i hope that strength i know you have carries you through this difficult time. god bless you and DH and your precious little angel baby. :angel:

Carisa, I too am thinking of you and hoping you are hanging in there today. Praying for you sweetie. Please drop us a line when you can.

Holly

You guys are SOOO sweet!! I appreciate every one of your posts. I really mean it, I don't take your posts for granted AT ALL!! I love reading them and I always tear up too. The support means so much to me. I am one to take things extremely hard and this has been one of my main support systems, not because I don't have wonderful family and friends, but......you know what I mean. It's just nice to have people who understand.
Well, my D&C went beautifully, it that is even possible.:dizzy: I didn't feel and thing and I don't remember a thing. I didn't feel sick when I woke up either, which was a big fear of mine as I've had that in the past. The good news for me is that my RE is sending my poor little one away for testing to see if they can figure out what went wrong. I sure hope they come up with something so I can know. Anyway, thanks again!!:angel:

Carisa

Hi Carisa sweetie so glad u posted I was waiting to hear from u.I am glad all went well.That is good that the doctor will test ur little one maybe u will get some answers.I am glad this part is over and now u can concentrate on healing and starting again.I pray for ur little angel.Take care sweetie.We are always here for u.:)

Mapia

Hi Carisa~

Glad you posted your update~ I have been thinking about you today- just as everyone else. :)

I hope you get some answers on what happened, and heal quickly! I am happy it went so well.

You are in my prayers~

Laurie

Carisa

So glad to see your update and so glad that things went well.
It s so great that you re going to get your little one tested. Don t get me wrong i know the circumstances are sad. But when i m/c i had asked for testing and i was told they don t do it unless you m/c 3 times. And know i feel ever so bad for not insisting. It s one of my greatest regrets.

Hold on sweetie....i am sure that you ll make an excellent mommy.

(((hugs)))

AMy

Carisa, so glad to see your update & to hear there weren't any complications. I think it's wonderful that your RE is willing to do that with your little angel. I really hope it brings you some answers. Please know that you, your DH, and your little angel are still in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you an easy recovery.

Holly

Carisa, I'm glad that things went as smoothly as possible for you. I know it couldn't have been easy, but it's nice that there were no negative physical side effects. I hope that they can find some explanation for you and provide a little peace of mind. :angel:

Hi Carisa,

I responded to your other thread but wanted to respond here too. I am so glad it all went smoothly and you had minimal discomfort. I am glad to hear your RE is taking you little one to be tested. Mine OB at the time would not do that as he called it so common to have a m/c. I wanted to deck him as it may be common to him but it is not to the person going through it. So I think that is great at least you may be able to have some answers that bring you some comfort. I hope your holding up ok today.

((HUGS))

kathy

Hi Carisa
Glad everything happend smoothly without any further issues. Hope next cycle turns out to be yours and we see a healthy baby in your arms.

A big (((hug)))
Golds

Hi Carisa.

I am so glad everything went ok. i know it had to be a hard day for you. i think that is really smart to have your angel baby tested, there may be an important clue there that could help you for next time. i hope you can get some rest now and feel better soon.

Thank ladies,
Yes, I am very lucky that I am able to get my angel tested. I wasn't even going to ask because I thought it was just a policy that you need to have at least three m/c before they would even consider, but when I woke up from my surgery my RE was standing there talking to my DH and she told me that she already has sent my angel away to see if we could get some answers before starting my next ivf cycle. I have an appointment to go over the results with her in two weeks. I'm glad to physically close this chapter of my life, emotionally it may take more time but I'm already feeling more at peace with it than I was last week.

Carisa