Well very sadly it's BFN for me too. I had a headache most of the night and couldn't sleep this morning so I got up early to test. Just still in shock I guess... way too many BFN's this week. Don't know if I feel like I can do another IUI, might talk about going to IVF now even though my RE liked what he saw with me and DH this cycle. I just don't think I can take another BFN. Looks like I'm gonna be taking off for Vegas in a few hours so maybe being out of town will help my mind stay distracted. Thanks to all of your for your prayers and babydust. I know it will all pay off one day, just not this time.

Oh kari!
I am so sorry. I really was hoping this was your time. I know how it feels to keep getting bfn's, and that is what finally drove me to IVF. it definitely is something to consider. i was going to strangle my RE if i heard him say one more time how perfect every cycle was and that he just didn't understand why it wasn't working. enough of that crap. :rolleyes:

I know how hard it is to take and i hope you go on the vacation, have some cocktails and enjoy yourself, and then when you come back you can figure out the next step. it will happen for you, maybe it is just time to change the game plan a little bit.

Take care.

Kari I am so sorry I just woke up myself couldent sleep last night.Really rough day for me.Anyway I ran to my computer hoping to see ur BFP.I am so sorry man this month keeps getting worse and worse what is going on cant anyone catch a break?I am so upset right now.Seeing a BFP from u would have put me in a much better mood.I dont know what to say Kari other then I am so sorry.Like u said dont let this get u down it will happen for u sweetie just know that.I cant believe this torture we are all living.Well go to Vegas try and get ur mind off things I wish I could have left yesturday.I hope u have a great time and when u come back u can make a decission as to what u will do.Right now is not the time to think about it.Well sweetie I hope u know how much I was praying for u.We will miss u while u are gone.Take care.

Mapia:angel:

Oh Kari, I was really hoping you'd be the good news in this bad board week. You deserve it so much sweetie. I too understand not wanting to continue with IUIs. After 5 "perfect" IUIs and all BFNs I was done too. I know this IVF cycle isn't guarenteed but at least my chances are better.

Take some well-deserved vacation time and try to have as much fun as you can. I hope you come back refreshed with a new plan for going forward. We will be here for you.

Lori

Kari sweetie I am so sorry. There is nothing worse than getting another BFN trust me I know. I hope that you have fun in Vegas, try to take your mind off it for a while. Just know that it will happen for you.

Stephanie

Hi Kari,

How can I express how sorry I am through a computer. Like when Mapia got her news I wish I could just reach out and hug you guys. So much bad news on the boards lately and I was so wishing you hear good news from you today. It just amazes me the curves life throws at us and I just want to see the day that we are all not in so much pain. I can only imagine how disappointed you are when it was such a good cycle is so many ways. I like CBB felt the same way did not want to hear about one more IUI I was over it and wanted to move forward to IVF. What ever happens I hope the next cycle will be the one for you. Have a safe trip to Vegas....I hope it does help keep your mind off this a little bit.

XOXO
kathy

Kari~

I am so sorry! Just know that it is possible, and miracles do happen.

Enjoy your trip to Vegas~ it may be just what you need!

Laurie

Kari - I am so sorry about your news. I am thinking of you!

Kari,

Im so sorry to hear your news,is there any chance it could be wrong?
This is turning into a crap month for bfp's!

chin up
x

im so sorry to hear of your bfn.. it just plain SUCKS!! but i do hope you enjoy your vaca, sometimes its what we need.. dont give up hope please, i know it is easier said then done, but you will be a mommy someday.. i will be praying and thinking of you and you5r family.. <3 aimee

Hi Kari
I just don't know what to say 4th BFN in this week. I didn't even say a word in your Good luck thread by thinking its not really doing any good. I know I'm sounding little crazy but just thought by staying away from Good luck may bring some luck. Yes, lets take a break and start a fresh cycle with a new hope.
Hope you have a blast in Vegas and wish DH's niece a very happy birthday. I wish you could give her a best birthday present by making her an Aunt.
Lots of love
Golds

Sorry about the news Kari,I was shure hoping it would work for you. Good luck if you decide to go ahead and do an Ivf. Have fun in Vegas! We just went again in January. I do hope it helps keep your mind off things. I would even have a few cocktails!! My two favorites are a Sex on the Beach and a Baybreeze. They are good sweet drinks.

Best wishes, April

Kari, I'm so sorry. I wish the news was better. Glad that you can get away and enjoy some down time. I'll keep my fingers crossed that you get your bfp real soon.

Kari, I've been struggling to get online all evening, just praying to read about your BFP. I'm so disappointed for you. I really did think it was finally your time. So sorry to hear that I was wrong. Anyway, I hope you can enjoy Vegas and that it does the trick of taking your mind off everything. Have a wonderful time with DH and his neice and come back fresh and eager to try again. It's gonna happen one day.

Holly

I'm so sorry Kari, it's so hard when you get your hopes up. We all understand your pain and I'll be thinking of you. Have fun in Vegas. Where are you staying?

Carisa

Oh, you are probably already gone, nevermind.....

I'm so sorry to hear that! Try to relax and have fun on your trip and maybe it will renew your spirits when you return. ((((((((HUGS)))))))))

Kari

I am so sorry sweetie.My heart goes out to you.Probably you ve already left for your trip . Hope you manage to get your mind off things for a while.
I am sure that it will happen soon. Take care of yourself and DH.
Praying for you.

AMy

Oh Kari I am so sorry. It is just so difficult isn't it? I wish I could say something to make it better but I can't so instead I will just send you lots of hugs and well wishes.

Ruby

i am so sorry about your news, I can understand how you are feeling. Take care of your self.