HI there thought id start a new thread so i can answer people who have answeres my threads in the one place....
Firstly Hi Kim,
Yes being positive is a good thing but i have tried and failed. When i first found out i was smilling and making jokes but things just keep gettin worse and i can't smile anymore!!!!! Went to my heart doc on sat and found out i can have no more kids EVER was told i would have to spend the entire pregnancy in hospital and durin labour i would most likely die. That doesn't bother me to much but my current bf wants a child i have 3 but there not his. He is also a very sexual person and i don't want sex so i say no most of the time, he either cracks it or asks meto pleasure him which makes me crack it. He is a very selfish person and i really don't think he will ever change. So i want to leave him cause if he can't handle going without for one week what's he gonna do when i have surgery and can't heve it for a month. Also my abdo pain is gettin worse so i will have to have a laprascope which will make me even more sore which im not happy about
Secondly Thanks Susan you posted in my other thread and you were very nice please help with above if you can...ta oh what was wrong with you???sorry can't remember Hope to hear from you both soon and anyone olse who has some advice
Thanks
Suz

Hi again Suz.. I have to make this quick cause my daughter is climbing all over me and its almost time to feed the baby... First let me say again Im so sorry for all you are going through.. Im sorry that I cant relate and offer you help in that sense but im here if ya just need to talk.. As for your BF he needs to be more unserstanding and considerate a relationship is more than just sex.. I hope he treats you while you are recovering from your surgery (sp?).. as for whats wrong with me .. well First im having some nuerological promblems and start to see a new neuro on the 31st and 2nd I have HPV and lately my periods are getting crazy last month it was late 2 weeks .... and its so far 2 weeks late now.. Im not overly worried yet but i think i may make an appt. for a pap after i get going with the new nuero..
Gotta run sorry cant finish baby crying bbl sometime :)
God bless

Hi Susan,
Firstly my name is also susan just rather be called Suzie or Suz ;)
Secondly Thanks you are very sweet. Sorry im a bit slow what is nuero????
What type of the HPV virus do you have?If you know. Oh and my mum had similar problems with bleedin she ended up havin to have a hysterectomy after bleedin 2 months straight hope that doesn't happen with you. She was stressed that's what started her i bled for a month after havin a UID(i think that's what it's called)it's where they place a device inside ur vagina to make your body think your pregnant so you can't get pregnant. Anyhow i had that removed and my periods are normal now.
Lastly yeah i know he should be more supportive and less selfish but me and everyone else who knows him knows he will never change! he is an only child and he is half italian he is very self absorbed and selfish and i really think he will nevr change which is why i think we should break up
Hope tohear from you again
Suz:wave:

Hi Suz.. :) Thats what my Hubby calls me.. :)
Sorry to hear that your mom had bleeding troubles . my problem is im not bleeding (if that makes sense) .. Nuero is shot for nuerologist no ned to be sorry I dont understand most of the abbriviations on the boards lol.
I hope things work out for you and your BF .. but if you feel you should break up then thats smomething you should give alot of thought too and weigh the pro's and cons ..
I dont know what type i have of HPV ... (or maybe i just dont remember) But i did have 2 biopsies (sp?) in 2003.. I think was.. and they were good news... but it as so long ago I dont remember much Once i see the Nuero Dr and get going on that Im going to call my Gyno and go in for a check up and pap .. I figure it cant hurt to get checked ya know what i mean.. I had a pap in Oct/Nov and it was Normal.. but better safe than sorry.
gotta run gotta lot of running i need to do .. bbl .. :)

God Bless
Susan

Well had a pretty bad day yesterday but today is a brand new day. Talked to my gyno and my family and i have decided to get my tubes tied. She said she could do it at the same time as the laprascope which i will have done in July. My bf has changed his mind a few times but so far he has said that he loves me and wants to stay with me. Lets hope that lasts when i can't have sex for 2 months straight;)
Hope your news is good news
Keep smillin im tryin to
Suz

Well had a pretty bad day yesterday but today is a brand new day. Talked to my gyno and my family and i have decided to get my tubes tied. She said she could do it at the same time as the laprascope which i will have done in July. My bf has changed his mind a few times but so far he has said that he loves me and wants to stay with me. Lets hope that lasts when i can't have sex for 2 months straight;)
Hope your news is good news
Keep smillin im tryin to
Suz

Sorry you had a bad day ...I hope it gets better for you soon.
Are you getting your tube cut and tied I ask becasue there is a risk of them becoming untied .. it happened to a couple of friends of mine. (even though given your condition with your heart im sure the Dr would do the more perminent option). talk to you later
Godbless
Susan

um not sure she said she's gonna put a clamp on it. The only reason they're not doing a hysterectomy is because they don't know whether or not my heart will take it right now. So i still have the risk of getting cervical cancer