I've been enduring a LTR faithfully for the last 3 months. We've been together forever, actually almost 2 years, but only just recently did she move away. She claims she got tested recently and came up clean all the way across the board. About a week ago we got to see each other after about a month of being apart. We usually don't use any protection and neither of us have had any complications. Although for some strange reason she's not on the pill and she can't seem to get pregnant... Anyway to make a long story short I really love this girl and I have been faithful, honestly, and she says the same thing. But after our last encounter which included vaginal and oral intercourse, I started experiencing discharge from my penis. I talked to her about it and she swore that she hadn't been with anyone else. I went to the clinic today and it turned out to be gonorhea. I am certain that I contracted this from her, the physician told me that it is highly unlikely that she got the disease from non-sexual contact.

I guess I'm trying to find some reason not to believe she cheated on me. Anybody got a clue? Or did she have to cheat on me in some way? Those include kissing another guy or girl, giving head, etc. its all cheating to me and I want to know. Is there something totally unsuspecting that I can ask her to find out if she's lying or not? I'm not gonna tell her anything yet, I wanna see what you guys have to say.

Oh yeah she was on the last day of her period too, there was a little blood now that I think about it. Could that have anything to do with it? I know it increases the odds of getting an std, i'm saying would this eliminate sex with someone else as a possibility?