corina64
06-01-2007, 04:55 PM
Hello :wave: Sorry, I haven't been on boards for awhile I have been really busy. Yesterday, my husband had court and it went as well as to be expected. I got to stand up in court and speak my peace. I told the judge why my husband should come home and why we need counciling. There was a little tiff though... His Mom was sitting behind me and she got really pi**ed because I told the judge that family counciling would not work until he comes home because of the situation that he is living in... Whoops, I told the truth and it guess it hurts. My husband even apologized for taking me for granted. We also went to a counciling session together yesterday and he only got mad at me when I said that I was really concerned about him living with his family and the drinking issues.... I just want to be honest in these sessions in order for recovery. Maybe I am wrong???? Well, I will try to catch up on boards tonight and I hope everyone is well :)
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beka6
06-01-2007, 11:31 PM
Hi Corina,
Glad to see you back today! Honesty is vital during therapy sessions, if you want to get the most help possible. Holding things back will only drag out the healing process. IMO, you are right on for being totally honest with your husband. Otherwise, what is the point of going to therapy if you sugar-coat the issues? Well done!
Beka
Glad to see you back today! Honesty is vital during therapy sessions, if you want to get the most help possible. Holding things back will only drag out the healing process. IMO, you are right on for being totally honest with your husband. Otherwise, what is the point of going to therapy if you sugar-coat the issues? Well done!
Beka
ICC
06-02-2007, 08:05 AM
:blob_fire I totally agree Corina!!! you are taking care of you and that's a wonderful thing.
Grasshopper
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sammy68uk
06-02-2007, 05:42 PM
Corina,
I'm thinking of you and have my fingers and everything else crossed ( within reason ! ;) )for you.
I hope it works out for you !
Mark.
I'm thinking of you and have my fingers and everything else crossed ( within reason ! ;) )for you.
I hope it works out for you !
Mark.
corina64
06-02-2007, 06:01 PM
Thanks everyone for your support :) I have really missed everyone on boards it has been a really hectic week:blob_fire Just a little update... My husband is back, meaning his attitude and everything :) We still have issues but I think that my husband sees now who really loves him and wants the best for him. It has been a terrible process but maybe this is what needed to be done for my husband to get his priorities in order. His family did there best to try to break us up and I think he sees that they don't want him to be with me because that means they screwed up and not me.... They are guilty and now they have to own up to there problems and there lifestyle choices. What they taught there son by teaching him drinking and partying has landed him in trouble with his whole life... Anyway, hopefully tonight I will catch up on boards.. Thanks again everyone you are all really terrific people :)