Ok now, time for me to feel stupid. I am 35 years old and have only had sex with 2 women in 17 years. The first was my wife (a supposed virgin when I met her <no reaon not to believe really> 17 years old) and the second was a girlfiriend after leaving my ex. My girlfriend and I broke up last week and my ex and I met up five days ago and have had sex while considering reconsiliation (sp?). She told me she has had PROTECTED sex with only 2 guys since we were apart but then after oral sex with me (:blob_fire a real rarity for us) she told me that she also preformed oral sex on one of her partners.

After thinking back about 6 months ago she had a problem where her face and neck were both swollen for months. It was really bad and puffy or swolen. She said it was swollen glands and they checked for ever and could not come up with what it was. I did not think I had any reason not to believe her but after doing a search online I found that there could be reasons related to oral sex. I am wondering if anyone can shed light on this subject.