yeehaw
01-25-2002, 12:28 AM
Three weeks ago, my 6-yr-old got hit in the eye with a very soft snowball. Didn't hurt a bit, he said. 24 hrs. later he was seeing 4 black spots in that eye. They multiplied so much over the next few hrs. that he told me "There's so many, I can't count that high." I took him to the emergency room. Exam showed nothing unusual. ER doc said go to well-respected opthamologist--Dr. A. (30+ yrs. in the field). Went to Dr. A. Exam showed nothing unusual. Nothing prescribed. Dr. A. said call back if no change or it gets worse.
Almost daily I ask and my boy tells me spots still there. Other day I asked he said two of them have grown bigger and all the little ones are still there. I call Dr. A. Dr. A's partner wants to see him. Dr. B. (20+ yrs. in the field) examines eye, then announces that my boy's retina looks fine. "Oh, good," I replied, "then what could it be?" Dr. B repeats "Well, retina looks fine--really good." "Uh, Okaaay," I repeat, averting my eyes, beginning to feel a little 'hinky.' "Then could it be something else, I don't know, a macula problem or maybe swelling or inflammation or something?" "I just don't see any problem," he states, "the retina looks really good." "Well," I said, feeling really weird, "those spots have been there for 3 weeks. I thought there'd be some improvement by now. When he said two of them had gotten bigger, it really concerned me, and that's what prompted my call."
Dr. B. says, "It's possible that when he suffered this injury, he just became more aware of and more prone to seeing, uh, more sensitive, perhaps, to seeing these things "
WTF??? He's saying my baby's 'seeing things?'
I just sat there for a minute, silent, dumbfounded. Then simply said, "Thank you" (for your Expert opinion, I wanted to add), then " come on sweetie, I think we're finished here."
Does he really think my kid's making this up for attention? Let me tell you, my child doesn't even like me to ask about them. He always grunts & acts exasperated when I ask because he has to stop and consciously look around to find them. He then matter-of-factly answers my questions about them and we go on about our business.
I am so insulted and now, fearful. I do believe there was no obvious sign of injury. But if a person is seeing black spots after a blow to the eye, something has to be wrong! But, what is it? And in happy, healthy 6-yr-olds, wouldn't their body's natural healing properties have healed it by now?
I'm trying to be reasonable and wait another week or two, but I'm worried sick that by waiting, I could be risking his eyesight. Please respond if you have any ideas, opinions--I've searched the web for hours and can't find anything definitive. And I really hate waiting!
Almost daily I ask and my boy tells me spots still there. Other day I asked he said two of them have grown bigger and all the little ones are still there. I call Dr. A. Dr. A's partner wants to see him. Dr. B. (20+ yrs. in the field) examines eye, then announces that my boy's retina looks fine. "Oh, good," I replied, "then what could it be?" Dr. B repeats "Well, retina looks fine--really good." "Uh, Okaaay," I repeat, averting my eyes, beginning to feel a little 'hinky.' "Then could it be something else, I don't know, a macula problem or maybe swelling or inflammation or something?" "I just don't see any problem," he states, "the retina looks really good." "Well," I said, feeling really weird, "those spots have been there for 3 weeks. I thought there'd be some improvement by now. When he said two of them had gotten bigger, it really concerned me, and that's what prompted my call."
Dr. B. says, "It's possible that when he suffered this injury, he just became more aware of and more prone to seeing, uh, more sensitive, perhaps, to seeing these things "
WTF??? He's saying my baby's 'seeing things?'
I just sat there for a minute, silent, dumbfounded. Then simply said, "Thank you" (for your Expert opinion, I wanted to add), then " come on sweetie, I think we're finished here."
Does he really think my kid's making this up for attention? Let me tell you, my child doesn't even like me to ask about them. He always grunts & acts exasperated when I ask because he has to stop and consciously look around to find them. He then matter-of-factly answers my questions about them and we go on about our business.
I am so insulted and now, fearful. I do believe there was no obvious sign of injury. But if a person is seeing black spots after a blow to the eye, something has to be wrong! But, what is it? And in happy, healthy 6-yr-olds, wouldn't their body's natural healing properties have healed it by now?
I'm trying to be reasonable and wait another week or two, but I'm worried sick that by waiting, I could be risking his eyesight. Please respond if you have any ideas, opinions--I've searched the web for hours and can't find anything definitive. And I really hate waiting!

