ok well this has been going on for a long time and ive always wondered if it is a habit or something is wrong with me, but a couple of people have told me that when i talk to people i dont look in their eyes i guess my eyes like wander off, like upward. the only time i do look in someones eyes is when i remind myself and like think in my head "look at their eyes" does anyone else have this problem?

sounds like just a habit. personaly i hate looking people in the eyes when i talk to them, so i do the same thing you do.