SlyFoxy
08-18-2007, 06:21 PM
Hello everyone I new here an me an my hubby has been trying to have another child for the last 2 months an not sure were we are going wrong on our dates.
My dates for my period is May 25 then started again on June 25 next period was July 23 an now Aug 18th . Does my period seem to be not normal or what?
My hubby is over weight some plus has back hurt so when we do our deeds he stands up with me on the edge of bed will that affect anything also?
My dates for my period is May 25 then started again on June 25 next period was July 23 an now Aug 18th . Does my period seem to be not normal or what?
My hubby is over weight some plus has back hurt so when we do our deeds he stands up with me on the edge of bed will that affect anything also?
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Sophiesmomma
08-18-2007, 10:58 PM
Hi!
Welcome to the boards....great place to be for support!!
I wouldn't say that your cycles are NOT normal. It maybe difficult to pinpoint ovulation month to month ( if you really wanted to make sure you hit egg by bd'ing the right days) Anyway, maybe try opks. In the next several months, I will be using my fertility monitor again. It really helped me figure out when I was approaching ovulation. I don't think that the position that you are bd'ing will effect whether or not you get pregnant. I get paranoid however, and really try to lay down so the spermies don't swim out of me, I want as many up "there" as possible!
Good luck!
Rachel
Welcome to the boards....great place to be for support!!
I wouldn't say that your cycles are NOT normal. It maybe difficult to pinpoint ovulation month to month ( if you really wanted to make sure you hit egg by bd'ing the right days) Anyway, maybe try opks. In the next several months, I will be using my fertility monitor again. It really helped me figure out when I was approaching ovulation. I don't think that the position that you are bd'ing will effect whether or not you get pregnant. I get paranoid however, and really try to lay down so the spermies don't swim out of me, I want as many up "there" as possible!
Good luck!
Rachel
SlyFoxy
08-19-2007, 03:47 PM
Sophiesmomma thank ye for the welcome. I guess I have lots to learn and so forth. I hope to learn alot from this place plus get things going good I hope. Thanks for the kindness plus help. What fertility monitor are u using? We started using the clearplan fertilty monitor about 2 months back.
Sophiesmomma I was also going to say when we get done doing our deed I lay in bed with a pillow under my hips for about 30 mins to hope that will help. I hope it does I'm getting older ever yr and it is now worring me that we will not get to have another child.
Sophiesmomma I was also going to say when we get done doing our deed I lay in bed with a pillow under my hips for about 30 mins to hope that will help. I hope it does I'm getting older ever yr and it is now worring me that we will not get to have another child.
Sophiesmomma
08-19-2007, 05:13 PM
Hi!
I use the clearblue easy fertility monitor..I like it. The test sticks are expensive, but it is a 3 month supply.
That is a good idea to lay down after bd'ing. That is what I do! Can't hurt, right?
How old is your child? I have an 18 month old dd. The second time around has not been easy for us!!! You'll like the support this board and the gals here have to offer! Sometimes, I have a hard time being patient and understand that it WILL happen! :D
Lots of baby dust to you!!!!!! To everyone here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
I use the clearblue easy fertility monitor..I like it. The test sticks are expensive, but it is a 3 month supply.
That is a good idea to lay down after bd'ing. That is what I do! Can't hurt, right?
How old is your child? I have an 18 month old dd. The second time around has not been easy for us!!! You'll like the support this board and the gals here have to offer! Sometimes, I have a hard time being patient and understand that it WILL happen! :D
Lots of baby dust to you!!!!!! To everyone here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
SlyFoxy
08-20-2007, 03:59 AM
Hi!
I use the clearblue easy fertility monitor..I like it. The test sticks are expensive, but it is a 3 month supply.
That is a good idea to lay down after bd'ing. That is what I do! Can't hurt, right?
How old is your child? I have an 18 month old dd. The second time around has not been easy for us!!! You'll like the support this board and the gals here have to offer! Sometimes, I have a hard time being patient and understand that it WILL happen! :D
Lots of baby dust to you!!!!!! To everyone here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
Yep the sticks a little expensive but will be worth it when we get pg. Our child is 9 yrs old now. Boy do they grow up fast. We hadn't plan on waiting this long but things have came up an health issues also in the family. We finally decide we needed to start trying before we get to old.. LOL.. I'm in my early 30's an my hubby is early 40's. We both had been checked an he has a little bit of a low count but the doctor said nothing to worry about because the swimmers are ok no bad things wrong with them. They all are A OK. :) Which is a plus. Which we are no just waiting on the right time again. Here I have my cycle right now an we both was hopeing this month we had hit a home run but nope :( we didn't maybe next time. I know just a few months isn't long but it makes you wondering if it will happen again. Our first child was a big OPPPSS.:) but a great OPPPSS..:) Now hopeing for the 2nd one to be planned but started to get a little worried knowing our ages are getting up there but guess we need to be calm which is hard to do at times.
Wishing you lots of luck to. Baby dust your way also an to others.
I use the clearblue easy fertility monitor..I like it. The test sticks are expensive, but it is a 3 month supply.
That is a good idea to lay down after bd'ing. That is what I do! Can't hurt, right?
How old is your child? I have an 18 month old dd. The second time around has not been easy for us!!! You'll like the support this board and the gals here have to offer! Sometimes, I have a hard time being patient and understand that it WILL happen! :D
Lots of baby dust to you!!!!!! To everyone here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
Yep the sticks a little expensive but will be worth it when we get pg. Our child is 9 yrs old now. Boy do they grow up fast. We hadn't plan on waiting this long but things have came up an health issues also in the family. We finally decide we needed to start trying before we get to old.. LOL.. I'm in my early 30's an my hubby is early 40's. We both had been checked an he has a little bit of a low count but the doctor said nothing to worry about because the swimmers are ok no bad things wrong with them. They all are A OK. :) Which is a plus. Which we are no just waiting on the right time again. Here I have my cycle right now an we both was hopeing this month we had hit a home run but nope :( we didn't maybe next time. I know just a few months isn't long but it makes you wondering if it will happen again. Our first child was a big OPPPSS.:) but a great OPPPSS..:) Now hopeing for the 2nd one to be planned but started to get a little worried knowing our ages are getting up there but guess we need to be calm which is hard to do at times.
Wishing you lots of luck to. Baby dust your way also an to others.
cashahn
08-20-2007, 11:21 PM
In addition to what you ladies are saying about putting a pillow underneath for 30mins after bding try having an orgasm as the contractions of the uterus open up the cervix and suck the little guys up into the uterus, kinda helps them on there way abit, just something I have read up on recently and think I will definately have to try for myself I think.
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purplegirl1
08-21-2007, 12:39 AM
I Have Heard The Same Thing!!!!
clairzee
08-21-2007, 07:48 AM
Hi all..
yip, I always try to org after DP and put a pillow under with legs in the air for 20-30 mins or so, DP thinks it's adorable (??)
Rachel, I'm the same with being frightened of letting any of them escape!
Good to share all of this neurosis with you lot!
Baby dust Xx
yip, I always try to org after DP and put a pillow under with legs in the air for 20-30 mins or so, DP thinks it's adorable (??)
Rachel, I'm the same with being frightened of letting any of them escape!
Good to share all of this neurosis with you lot!
Baby dust Xx
kaycie
08-22-2007, 05:40 AM
In addition to what you ladies are saying about putting a pillow underneath for 30mins after bding try having an orgasm as the contractions of the uterus open up the cervix and suck the little guys up into the uterus, kinda helps them on there way abit, just something I have read up on recently and think I will definately have to try for myself I think.
Cashahn xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Sorry to be confusing, but what do you mean havin an orgasm as the contractions of the uterus open up? do you mean that after the sprem is in, that you should wait to orgasm yourself with a pillow underneath, to help the sperm go in the right direction? please explain because i want as much info as i can get as we only have a few good days each month!! thanks in advance
kaycie
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Sorry to be confusing, but what do you mean havin an orgasm as the contractions of the uterus open up? do you mean that after the sprem is in, that you should wait to orgasm yourself with a pillow underneath, to help the sperm go in the right direction? please explain because i want as much info as i can get as we only have a few good days each month!! thanks in advance
kaycie
SlyFoxy
08-22-2007, 04:23 PM
Hello everyone.
To one of the people talking about having a OG I also would like them to explain also. This may sound silly but me I have a hard time reaching that part. So if could tell me what be the best way. I hope that don't sound off odd or strange.
Thanks
To one of the people talking about having a OG I also would like them to explain also. This may sound silly but me I have a hard time reaching that part. So if could tell me what be the best way. I hope that don't sound off odd or strange.
Thanks
kaycie
08-22-2007, 04:48 PM
lol doesnt sound odd to me at all...i dont think ive ever been able to reach og without other stimulation. so i guess my question is also, does the woman have to og in order to get pregnant or no??