V_dubgurl
08-21-2007, 09:10 PM
Hi Guys! Well Hubby and I are ttc this month. My ovulation date is in 3 days. However, I have so much anxiety over this. I have anxiety and anxiety attacks and am afraid that once preggers, it will go into full force. Does anyone know, the effects on the baby if the mother has anxiety during the pregnancy? I am ready to be a mother, but am afraid becuase of my anxiety. I don't want it to stop me from ttc like it already has. I have put it off for the past 2 years. Any suggestions?
Thank you!
Thank you!
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Destea
08-22-2007, 11:35 AM
Well, I don't have the greatest advice, but I can tell you I suffered from severe anxiety disorder for roughly 11 years until I went through some EMDR therapy. I still have anxiety attacks and am afraid of them - but they're very far and few between - and much more mild. I was terrified that I would have an attack during my wedding but it all worked out ;)
Talk to your (or a?) doctor and see if they know if any medications for anti-anxiety are available to take during pregnancy. I know I'll be doing so (though currently I only need to take the meds maybe one day out of a month, so I just need something supplimental not daily..), because I'd hate to put that much stress on my system with a baby in there relying on me being healthy. I'm definitely scared that I'll have a little more anxiety/attacks when I get pregnant just due to the stress of the situation in general - but ultimately, when you're ready typically the body can be overriden by the mind - and if the mind is saying "I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY - I AM HAVING A BABY SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!" ... well, normally it will end up winning .. if you know what I mean?
Talk to your (or a?) doctor and see if they know if any medications for anti-anxiety are available to take during pregnancy. I know I'll be doing so (though currently I only need to take the meds maybe one day out of a month, so I just need something supplimental not daily..), because I'd hate to put that much stress on my system with a baby in there relying on me being healthy. I'm definitely scared that I'll have a little more anxiety/attacks when I get pregnant just due to the stress of the situation in general - but ultimately, when you're ready typically the body can be overriden by the mind - and if the mind is saying "I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY - I AM HAVING A BABY SO LEAVE ME ALONE!!!" ... well, normally it will end up winning .. if you know what I mean?
JAILYN12
08-22-2007, 05:07 PM
I am in the same boat. I am on Prozac right now, but when I get pregnant I am going to switch to Zoloft. My OB said that is the safest drug to be on while pregnant. You need to be on something to help you get by. Being pregnant is stressful enough without making yourself go crazy. If the benefits outweigh the risks then why not.
I need to be sane for mine and my baby's sake.
I need to be sane for mine and my baby's sake.
V_dubgurl
08-22-2007, 09:34 PM
Thanks guys! Its so hard for me. I really want this, but am scared to death! It feels good being able to talk to people on here about my fears. Thanks for listening!
I am still trying to pin point ovulation, I am not exactly sure when it is, but am getting closer to it. I have really irregular periods. I just really hope when the time comes, I can enjoy it and not have anxiety the whole time. Its scary you know!
I am still trying to pin point ovulation, I am not exactly sure when it is, but am getting closer to it. I have really irregular periods. I just really hope when the time comes, I can enjoy it and not have anxiety the whole time. Its scary you know!
purplegirl1
08-23-2007, 12:33 AM
I am diagnosed with depression and OCD. I take 150 mg of Luvox daily. My psychiatrist and OBGYN agree to keep me on this during pregnancy. Hubby and I are TTc, went for genetic counseling (totally suggest that). There is alot of evidence that being pregnant and depressed is very harmful to the baby, so the meds are better anyway than being depressed...ya know..
Robyn26
08-23-2007, 11:20 AM
Hey Purplegirl,
I love reading your posts. Can I ask what your Dr/genetic counsellor said about being on Luvox and being pregnant??? Like I said in my other post to you, I too have to stay on my meds while pregnant and was told that it's normally pretty safe with the baby having some minior withdrawls symptoms once born??? I have to admit I'm a bit nervous about this..I think for both me...fear of relapsing while pregnant and for the baby! How do you feel about being on Luvox and being pregnant and do you know anyone else that has had a baby while being on Luvox?? Look forward to hearing from you!! :)
R
I love reading your posts. Can I ask what your Dr/genetic counsellor said about being on Luvox and being pregnant??? Like I said in my other post to you, I too have to stay on my meds while pregnant and was told that it's normally pretty safe with the baby having some minior withdrawls symptoms once born??? I have to admit I'm a bit nervous about this..I think for both me...fear of relapsing while pregnant and for the baby! How do you feel about being on Luvox and being pregnant and do you know anyone else that has had a baby while being on Luvox?? Look forward to hearing from you!! :)
R
purplegirl1
08-23-2007, 07:28 PM
Dear Robyn,
Ah thanks....
Ok, being that I have OCD - Yes, I am worried, LOL LOL.... But seriously, my OBGYN and Psychiatrist both made it very very very clear to me that if I was not going to feel well mentally while pregnant (sad, depressed, not eat well, cry, worry), in a sense, not function well, that the medication is a must. They both wanted me to go for the genetic counselng before getting pregnant so that I could hear what they said b/c they both felt that they did not have enough specific knowledge of Luvox.
Genetic Counselor - that is what she said, that the baby may have more w/drawal symptoms of coming off of the Luvox when born, and may have difficulty breathing, more irritable, stomach problems, but were all temporary and would be gone at the most 2 weeks. Genetic Counselor said that she did not find Luvox to be dangerous and that if I was to be pregnant and not on medication and feel the things I listed above, that it could be more UNHEALTHY to the baby during pregnancy...she was NOT worried with me taking the luvox at all. She recommended extra monitoring while pregnant and to go to a pediatric cardiologist at 20 weeks so that the dr. can test the baby's heart specifically... lots of diff. test the ensure the baby's heart was ok...
Does this help? I don't know people who were on luvox preg. but other anti-depressants.. they did not report any problems...
Ah thanks....
Ok, being that I have OCD - Yes, I am worried, LOL LOL.... But seriously, my OBGYN and Psychiatrist both made it very very very clear to me that if I was not going to feel well mentally while pregnant (sad, depressed, not eat well, cry, worry), in a sense, not function well, that the medication is a must. They both wanted me to go for the genetic counselng before getting pregnant so that I could hear what they said b/c they both felt that they did not have enough specific knowledge of Luvox.
Genetic Counselor - that is what she said, that the baby may have more w/drawal symptoms of coming off of the Luvox when born, and may have difficulty breathing, more irritable, stomach problems, but were all temporary and would be gone at the most 2 weeks. Genetic Counselor said that she did not find Luvox to be dangerous and that if I was to be pregnant and not on medication and feel the things I listed above, that it could be more UNHEALTHY to the baby during pregnancy...she was NOT worried with me taking the luvox at all. She recommended extra monitoring while pregnant and to go to a pediatric cardiologist at 20 weeks so that the dr. can test the baby's heart specifically... lots of diff. test the ensure the baby's heart was ok...
Does this help? I don't know people who were on luvox preg. but other anti-depressants.. they did not report any problems...
V_dubgurl
08-23-2007, 07:59 PM
What happens to the baby if the mother isn't on any meds and has anxiety? I know preterm labor and low birth weight, but is there more Im missing? I just really don't want to go on meds if I don't have to. I have done with out them for the last 2 years.
purplegirl1
08-23-2007, 08:14 PM
I am not sure that anything would happen or not? I think it could just cause more stress for the baby...but people have anxiety and dont realize it and have been pregnant..
the thing is, if you are ok and can function, then don't worry... I CAN'T FUNCTION WITHOUT MEDS...Please DO NOT take my situation as what it has to be - you know... :) Talk with your doctor!!!! Don't worry (no pun intended)..I just can't function without the meds... I am different...
the thing is, if you are ok and can function, then don't worry... I CAN'T FUNCTION WITHOUT MEDS...Please DO NOT take my situation as what it has to be - you know... :) Talk with your doctor!!!! Don't worry (no pun intended)..I just can't function without the meds... I am different...
V_dubgurl
08-23-2007, 09:00 PM
Yeah I guess your right! Thanks ! I am excited and so scared at the same time! Haha!
purplegirl1
08-24-2007, 12:56 AM
me too.. but it will all work out and be ok... keep in touch on here!!!
:angel: :D ;) :)
:angel: :D ;) :)
JenninON
08-24-2007, 01:05 AM
I'm in the same boat. I've got anxiety and depression issues myself. I don't function well in the real world w/o any medical help.
I've discussed me continuing to take meds while TTC and once i do get pregnant. I truly believe that it is best for me and the baby to take them while pregnant. There are a million people who will tell you otherwise i'm sure. I've had enough people tell me that i am horrible for even considering taking Paxil while pregnant. But studies have shown that there is no higher risk for defects on or off the meds.
I honestly believe that the baby wouldn't make it to term because of the stress i would put on it with my anxiety and depression if i chose not to take any medications.
I've discussed me continuing to take meds while TTC and once i do get pregnant. I truly believe that it is best for me and the baby to take them while pregnant. There are a million people who will tell you otherwise i'm sure. I've had enough people tell me that i am horrible for even considering taking Paxil while pregnant. But studies have shown that there is no higher risk for defects on or off the meds.
I honestly believe that the baby wouldn't make it to term because of the stress i would put on it with my anxiety and depression if i chose not to take any medications.