Im a 20 year old male, ive had an eating disorder for about 3 or so years now. Ive tried numerous times to stop on my own, but, a few weeks later ill be right back at it. Im really not sure where to go, what to do, etc. i really feel like its something i cant tell people, since for the most part, bulimia is percieved as a problem solely for chicks. Im not sure if i can handle what my parents, friends and others would say if they found out that i do what i do,and it makes it very hard to stop, because coming from a very affluent family that is held in high regards throughout my hometown, i just have a feeling they wouldnt take it well, and i really dont want other people to find out, but being from a smaller town, i have a feeling word would spread.
I hate the fact that i feel the need to vomit after every meal i eat, but i cant stop myself. As time goes on i feel worse and worse about it, i feel like, well, i dont know how i feel, but i dont like it. All i know is i dont really want to continue doing it, but i just dont know where to turn.

any help is greatly appreciated.

Hi, welcome,

A lot more men have this than you might be aware. It's fairly common for weight lifters, athletes, and more and more, just for guys in general.

I came from an affluent family, too, so I understand your difficulties there. No, you don't want it broadcast around town, and you're an adult, which means you're free to get treatment. Therapists are legally bound to keep your confidences.

Can you get to a therapist without you family knowing it? Or, if you can't, can you tell them it's for depression, or whatever, without revealing the bulimia?

I am very glad you're reaching out and wanting some help. Bulimia is a potential killer, can blind you, rip up your esophagus, really hurt you for life.

I'll be glad to help wherever I can. Please keep posting, and I'd be interested to know if there are obstacles to you getting professional help.

Take care, hope to hear from you.

Hi there!

Being that your not a minor, you can go see a therapist and the law says that everything must be kept in confidence. Good Luck...recovery is the right path. You'll be happier then you'll ever know. Keep us posted! :angel: