I'm a 16 year old female, and i have Ibs. I got my first symptom 2 years ago in the end of 9th grade.. which i had thought was a virus so i just let it pass. When 10th grade came along the first week of school i was sitting in my 8th period class and my ibs kicked in (when i had no idea it was ibs) and i got some really really loud noises.. and when i meen loud i meen you could hear it through closed doors. Along with the noises i got uncomfortable feelings in my stomach...
That day was the worst day for my because i had no idea hwat this was i wasnt hungry and i was annoyed i couldnt control it. I was embaressed although who actually knows if anyone heard it.. but i didnt care I heard it and I didnt like it. Ever since that day i got these problems every day in 8th period class. I would walk in the class really nervous sit down couldnt focus couldnt sit still waiting and waiting for the ibs symptoms to come again and they never let me down they alwaysssss happened.. Now this whole cycle started in another class and another class and whenever this happened once in a location i feared that location forever more. Of course when i found out it was ibs i tried googling it and talking to people asking for cures.. yet no cure and tomorrow is my first day of 11th grade. I've tried metamucil and changing my food diet.. nothing helped and i tried them for a while. I also have asked for testing privaleges such as taking tests in a seperate room. that was great until they couldnt do it much longer the seperate rooms started getting filled with others who wanted a seperate room as well. I know a lot of people suffer this and my dad has given me multiple deep talks telling me that i can overcome this anxiety fear caused by something so simple that if someone else heard of it they wouldnt understnad why i get so worked up about it. I think its a little comforting that other people go throught this my age... but its not going to make this problem go away for me. I have a problem thinking positively and clearing my mind so that also never helped..
Anyway my main purpose for posting this is because as i said before tomorrow is my first day of 11th grade.. and i really dont want to have to go through another full year of suffering like i did last year.. i would cut class no go to school avoid any fearful situations possible.. sometimes althoguh i would force myself to sit in class someitmes there was also no way out and it would be horrible i couldnt focus at all it was so bad. These past 2 weeks as ive reached closer and closer to a new school year ive been shaking and crying uncontrollably and i dont know what to do..
ive heard recently on other forums that drinking a half a cup or 1 cup of aloe vera juice a day will completely make those embaressing noises go away .. is that true??
Can someone help me???
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bellyblues
09-05-2007, 01:07 AM
Sweetie pie, do not drink aloe. Not only will that not help your tummy tumbles, but it will likely give you very bad diahhrea. I am sure you don't want to deal with that in the classroom!
If you have a doctor that has diagnosed you, ask him for a note that you can bring with you to school. If your teachers are aware that you are dealing with this problem, they will likely allow you more freedom to run out of the classroom when you must or have some privacy when taking tests.
Your dad is echoing the general attitude (even of some doctors) of people who have never experienced IBS. God bless their good intentions, but unless one has lived with this "syndrome", they can't possibly understand how debilitating it is physically, mentally, and emotionally. I have friends that I've known for decades who still don't "get it" about my gut trouble. But you better believe that whenever any of them gets the runs or suddenly ends up constipated, I am the first one they call. Suddenly, they "understand"!
On the practical side, try to avoid fast foods, especially anything mexican. Even though most of us here LOVE KFC, we avoid it like poison. Soda, gum, fresh fruit, certain high fiber cereals, etc., can all cause gas and tummy rumbles. You might want to try some of the GasX products or charcoal tablets although you should be careful that you don't end up constipated from using them.
The most important thing is to relax. Believe me when I say I know how hard that is to do!
I have a problem with my car. Since it seems like everytime I get into my car I have an attack, I've now developed somethig of a phobia about driving any further than a five mile radius!
I also want to point our that sitting for long periods of time can also get your gut churning. I think that is part of my problem with the car. I work on my feet all day and while I still have some pain, it's not nearly as bad as when I get home and sit down on my rump for a few hours. I know there is nothing you can do about sitting since you must be in class, but perhaps if you had a doctor's note to give your teachers, you might be able to relax a bit, or even take little breaks during class where you could get up and walk around the halls.
I hope this helps! Let us know how you do!
Hexl
09-05-2007, 03:53 AM
Hey!
I'm in a quite simular position, I am still unable to do a full day at school, which in itself is bad(I'm quite close to being kicked out) and it's really depressing me. And yes, people do not seem to understand how bad it is until they experience it, and your father is the same as my mother, and I'm trying so hard to deal with the anxiety of it all(Which in my case, is as big of a problem as the D itself) yet cannot manage alone, and i'm pretty lost on what to do. :/
JesseA
09-05-2007, 09:44 AM
I also want to point our that sitting for long periods of time can also get your gut churning. I think that is part of my problem with the car. I work on my feet all day and while I still have some pain, it's not nearly as bad as when I get home and sit down on my rump for a few hours.
Wow no kidding? Now it all makes sense, I noticed when Im working (on my computer sitting down) for hours my stomach begins to hurt, but if I go out for a day and walking around im fine.
conniepepper38
09-05-2007, 01:02 PM
I have lived with IBS for 17 years now. I did not have it in HIgh school thank God but I am taking Colestid. It is used for High colestrol which I have now but I have been taking Lomotil for years but it has a barbituate in it and it can make you sleepy or hyper. Talk to your doctor about Colestid. And look on some of these message boards there are other people taking it and it works. I couldn't take the recommended doses because it was to much but it will change you life and make your junior, senior years great.
Connie Pepper
tummyproblems
09-05-2007, 03:33 PM
belly blues i think you might be wrong with the aloe vera thing im about 90% sure that its really really good for your digestive system i baught it and it even talks about the intestines on the back of it soo
and connie pepper that doesnt make sence.. i dont have high colestrol
melissadawn12
09-05-2007, 05:00 PM
hey hun,
i'm an 18 year old female and believe me i know exactly what you're going though. Everyone on this board has given great advice..(i.e. watch what you eat, take gas x..etc) I remember a couple months ago i had my prom and i would literally lose sleep for weeks before, because i was afraid i would have a flare up in the limo..i mean imagine that..being in a limo with my date and my friends and saying that we needed to pull over so i could use the bathroom!! hah but i was very careful and the evening turned out perfect! After awhile you'll get used to what you can and cannot eat. Anyways, no one knows better than we do what you're going through, and i know it's VERY VERY frustrating (especially when people tell you they understand when they really don't) but you just have to keep your head up and try not to stress about it because stress just makes it worse. I hope that helps and if you ever need to talk just give a shout out!!! good luck with school!!! =]
*Melissa*
tummyproblems
09-05-2007, 06:48 PM
well school today sucked.. i was completely calm and relaxed about the whole situation as a matter of fact i didnt think about my stomach once.. but did that stop my stomach on upseting me noooo i feel like its never going to be perfect.. im eating a strict diet of all the foods i know i can eat that dont make me sick and im still no good.
i know its not good to run away from your problems but there is no chance that i can go back tomorrow.. i really want to be homeschooled
not only is it bad but im starting to feel physically drained and really sick from all this nerve and stress being caused by my stomach.. its not goood for a 16 year old to be like this
and i really appreciate you guys for helping but i wish you knew that my stress didnt cause the stomach the stomach caused t he stress.. i was never so stressed until my stmoach acted up.. before then i barely knew what stress was
bellyblues
09-06-2007, 01:22 AM
and i really appreciate you guys for helping but i wish you knew that my stress didnt cause the stomach the stomach caused t he stress.. i was never so stressed until my stmoach acted up.. before then i barely knew what stress was
Sweetie, WE KNOW THAT!!!!
I've spent 13 years with a therapist who was wonderful in every way EXCEPT for the fact that she truly believed my head was the cause of my gut! I was never able to make her understand that the only stress I have in my life IS my gut - not the other way around. Believe me, we understand.
Aloe Vera is typically recommended for IBS with constipation. Regardless of it's overall health benefits, it coats the colon and makes passing stool easier. It is recommended as a preliminary treatment for people who are undergoing colonics, colonscopy, etc. If you have Diahhrea, you do not want to be lubricating your instestines.
JesseA
09-06-2007, 09:06 AM
Initially I think the stomach problems cause the stress, but then I think it turns into a vicious cycle to where the individual, even with no stomach problems, begins to stress and worry with "what ifs" and in turn makes their symptoms act up. Then the cycle continues......symptoms acting up bringing on additional stress, the stress and worry brigning on flare ups, so on and so forth
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do any of you experience hearburn-like symptoms with IBS?
tummyproblems
09-06-2007, 05:58 PM
okay but what can i realllyyyy do to make the noises and uncomftorability go away i already have a test tomorrow. not looking forward to it what can i do tonight i cant really go out and buy medicines.. anything besides staying calm cause i got t hat down i just need to make these noises go awayyyy
bellyblues
09-07-2007, 01:22 AM
okay but what can i realllyyyy do to make the noises and uncomftorability go away i already have a test tomorrow. not looking forward to it what can i do tonight i cant really go out and buy medicines.. anything besides staying calm cause i got t hat down i just need to make these noises go awayyyy
Try the gasX or charcoal tablets in the morning before you go to school. GasX can be purchased at any drug store. Charcoal tablets can be found in most health food stores. You might want to pick up some peppermint tea as well. Some folks find this helpful.
bellyblues
09-07-2007, 01:23 AM
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do any of you experience hearburn-like symptoms with IBS?
I have severe acid reflux.
JesseA
09-07-2007, 05:12 AM
I have severe acid reflux.
Lately I notice when I lay down ive been getting heart burn. I ran a quick search outside this site and there seems to be a connection. :mad:
bellyblues
09-07-2007, 11:48 AM
Lately I notice when I lay down ive been getting heart burn. I ran a quick search outside this site and there seems to be a connection. :mad:
Very definately. It has been suggested to me that I purchase one of the special pillows that keeps your neck and head at an angle (above the chest) while asleep. I have found this very helpful. In addition, laying down immediately after eating is the kiss of death. On another IBS board, someone posted that they have actually found relief from chewing gum! I never heard this before and have asked for further details! Will keep you posted.
Do you take anything for the heartburn?
JesseA
09-08-2007, 04:05 AM
I don`t take anything, no. This is pretty recent. I mean ive had it before, but ever since I had my most recent 'attack' ive noticed I keep getting episodes and if i burp it feels like burning acid came up.
Friendlee
09-08-2007, 10:31 AM
I remember these things in high school. And it went on through college. I would be driving to class and then I had to turn around and go home. Eventually I had to take a semester off of school!
My stomach noises would happen no matter if I ate a huge brekfast or if I ate nothing for two days. I tried everything in between. It was SOOO embarrassing. I found that drinking a ton of water before and during class helped because the plates of your stomach sort of move around and scrape each other, causing stomach rumble noises. The water helped them float and glide rather than rub against each other.
In the beginning my saga began with diarrhea. I found out that I had IBS and also Candidiasis (yeast overgrowth in intestines). I tried all of the amateur suggestions my doctor had but nothing worked. I tried not eating for days out of desperation and I STILL had symptoms!! I couldn't believe it. There was nothing there to cause the symptoms, how could it be?
Anyway, I went without sugar for 2 whole months (including natural sugar from fruit) and took a lot of garlic in order to kill the yeast that was attacking my gut. (this was the semester I was OUT of school). During that time, I also took something called Colostrum that heals the gut. This was all very helpful. I also started taking wellbutirn for anxiety whether it was already there, or caused by the IBS, it has greatly helped.
Years went by and my gut was annoying mostly and once in awhile it was a real problem, but never so bad as it was back then. Still, I spent leisure time looking things up on the internet like excess gas, bloating, feathery BM's, diarrhea....I was able to live with it, but I always knew it was not right. Someting strange - I always had better BM's after a fatty meal from fast food.
However, I have recently become painfully aware of factory farming and the strange facts of genetically modified foods. I will not eat anything processed and will never eat fast food again. I eat whole foods and make all of my meals from scratch on the weekends and just heat them up on the weekdays. So I have a lot of fiber in my diet and lot's of fluids, I take probitoics, I drink kefir.....recently, I have developed chronic constipation. Meaning, I go on most days but it requires effort and it is very large and sometimes pebbly. That, technically is constipation. It is supposed to be about the consistancy of peanut butter and in the S-shape of your colon. I am only 28 but I had a colonoscopy and they found nothing. They told me to just take Miralax for the rest of my life. Since they advise pregnant women against taking it...I was concerned about myself taking it and kept searching for something natural. The Miralax was unpredictable for me anyway. The saga with constipation became just as baffling despite the many things I tried - and I tried everything.
All of this to say, I have experienced both Const and Diarh and I think I found something that may help with either. I take Chlorella now and I am so much better. It heals the lining of the intestines and normalizes peristalsis in the intestines. It worked on the second day I took it. I took 3 in the morning and 3 in the afternoon for constipation. Now all I need are 2 in the morning and 2 in the afternoon. I would think that someone with diarrhea could start taking 1 in the morning and then the next day 1 in the morning and 1 in the afternoon. Not sure. But everything I read says that it helps with both types of IBS. Has anyone else tried it?
Friendlee
09-08-2007, 11:40 AM
Also, something to ease bowel anxiety: Matcha Green tea. (the real powder - nothing pre-packaged). If you live near a Whole Foods you can go to the bulk tea section and you'll find this kermit-the-frog-green powder. You just mix it with water and make tea. I add vanilla soy milk or honey to sweeten. It has L-theanine which is very relaxing. Also some caffeine but not like the kind coffee has. It gives you a calm alertness. It also has a TON of other benefits. I drink it in the morning now instead of coffee and I am much more relaxed about my mystery bowel experience each morning. (Of course the chlorella helped relieve my anxiety around that too).
Recently, after two months of daily matcha, I had a late night at work and decided to have a cup of coffee the next morning for the first time in two months. I was shocked at how different the caffeine high was. I was totally distracted and slightly jumpy. I attempted like 20 things and couldn't get a single thing done! Back to matcha now and I love how it relaxes you at the same time that it gives you stamina. Coffee is so delicious, so I will probably still have it for a treat now and then, but maybe only on weekends.
BLaZSauce
09-18-2007, 09:28 AM
Wow! After reading all of this I'm starting to believe I might have IBS, I experience the same EXACT things everyone has been feeling. At home I am perfectly fine, but when I am in class I also have to use the bathroom real bad. And I already used up 2 or my 3 allowed absences in college due to this. I also started to develop anxiety about anywhere I go. Especially if the place I am going has no bathroom, I tend not to go. And this has ruined my social life a LOT.
It's really depressing for me and I have no clue what to do except watch my diet, which I am starting to do, but I want a quick solution =/
tummyproblems
09-23-2007, 05:38 PM
i just started using a colon cleanse thing ill let everyone know if it helps... and i also have a homepathic thing for stomach growling and diarrhea which ill take too ill tell everyone what i get out of this.. i recently missed a whole week of school and tomorrow will be my first day back if i can do it.. ill update tomorrow bye!
Friendlee
09-24-2007, 08:12 AM
Good luck. I am sending tummy soothing vibes and calming energy your way.;)
tummyproblems
09-24-2007, 03:11 PM
okay its called IBx.. so far i haven't felt really all that different.. my first day back today was .. ehh alright not nearly as bad as i thought but defiantly not close to perfect.. i managed to slide by...but that was one day and with many more to come.. and i sense really hard times especially cause tomorrow i have 3 tests, and although i don't have to take them i have to sit through them in the quietness!!!. ahh okay
anyway mostly what sucked is that i was absent this week because of anxiety not because i was sick and my mom and psychologist and mainly everyone who knows about my problem said not to say i was sick because if i continue to be absent any time in the future eventually people will be suspicious of me always being sick.. but it sucked when people were like were you sick and I'm like no and then they would be like where were you.. i mainly said: i had a lot going on, personal stuff, don't wanna talk about it, and that my mom and stuff let me stay home because i just had too much going on. It sucked cause one of my teachers even said he didn't know what i looked like.
and one other comment that got to me was a kid was like talking about a class last year that i was in , and i was like i was in that class too remember and he was like oh you were, i wouldn't have realized because you were always absent. I feel like people think I'm a loser cause I'm always absent. If only they knew what i was going through, and just how hard it is.
melissadawn12
09-24-2007, 08:22 PM
i know exactly what you mean..and it can definitely be annoying when people say stuff like that. trust me, i know what you're going through..i used to be to embarrased to admit my problem, so people were under the impression that i was always at home with the flu, a cold, etc (basically any excuse i could think of besides IBS) however, i recommend telling your closest friends. Believe me, my life so much easier now that my best friend knows. This one time i was out with my best friend at blockbuster. We just ate lunch at applebees and i don't know what was up with the food, but about 5 minutes later i felt like i was going to explode! i pulled her aside and all i had to say was "emily, we have to go..i'm having a stomach problem." immediately after that we left, no questions asked. My best friend Emily was totally cool about it. It's so much better to have your friend know, and be understanding about it, then make excuses all the time. So if you have a best friend who doesn't know, and you hang out with him/her often, i would recommend telling them. Plus they are always there to give their support! i don't know where i'd be without my best friend! haha hope this helps you! =]
*Melissa*
Mr.Tibbs
09-24-2007, 08:56 PM
Well we have quite a little group here. I've had my IBS (for lack of a better name) since 1993. Nobody is really sure what has caused it. I got it while I was a soldier serving in Siani Egypt while on patrol of the mountains and various old battlefields. Initially, my entire patrol got very sick. I couldn't leave the latrine for 3weeks except when the medics had to come and get me to hall me off to the troop hospital. I almost died on that toilet. That was the beginning of a very long nightmare that has never gone away. I had to have surgery last year because my rectal area and large intestines had atrophied "to the size of an infants". I haven't had a "normal bowel movement" in 13 yrs. Finally, the Dr.'s put me on Opium Tincture several times a day, which helps most days but makes me so stoned I can't think straight. I used to work
deelted
, but I was spending to much time in the bathroom, and the only medication that helps, forbids me from working, driving, or just about most things outside of my new "housewife" duties. I tell my wife she has the most educated dish washer in the country. Since 1993, I've had more E.R. visits than I can remember and have amazed every Dr. thats ever tested me. Last month after getting so sick my wife had to leave work and rush me to the E.R., they did another small bowel follow through which should take about 5hrs, I completed the test in 7 minutes. The radiologist was amazed, the sickest patient he had ever tested in twenty years, took 20 minutes. This result, while amazing, made me extremely angry because I still got no answers. I've been out of work for 13 months now and the Veterans Adminstration just sent me a letter saying they lost my paperwork and medical records. It could be worse. I just made friends with another veteran of my generation thats very ill from "unknown causes". Its cost him his sight, umong many other terrible physical problems, he's not even sure he'll be alive in a couple years. Even with that, nothing is being done to help him, 36 yrs old and waiting to die. Well thats off topic, sorry I drifted. IBS is no picnic, no matter what the cause. If I couldn't laugh at it from time to time, I'de probably cry.:D
Friendlee
09-24-2007, 10:04 PM
Jeez you guys, I am so sorry. I have definitely experienced a lot of pain, embarrassment, anxiety and depression due to bowel stuff. I hate to hear that people just continue to go through this stuff with no real help.
The things that have helped me:
1. Colostrum. Look it up and see what you think. I think it healed me for a period of time.
2. Chlorella. I took it for awhile and had to experiement but it heals the gut, gets rid of candida and clears out the liver.
3. A new vitamin (SuperNutrition Opti-Packs).
4. Coconut oil.
5. Bananas for diarrhea.
6. Guided meditation specifically for headphone use only (recalibrates your brain and reduces anxiety). I listen to it often at night for a very deep and relaxing sleep.
7. Good friends I know I can trust, my mom and my husband. They are there when I am crying and take me seriously but also help me to laugh and encourage me to be an aggressive patient and advocate for myself.
Good luck guys. I know this is hard.
tummyproblems
09-25-2007, 01:08 AM
right now i feel the need to post..i know no one will respond because its late... but im getting happy that this is almost turning into a discussion group haha..
well anyway i don't know but im having a horrible night. My stomach feels like someone left a knife in it and its stuck. I cant even deal with this. I'm getting really upset and vulnerable right now. Mostly because today I went back to school for the first time in i think 13 days. It wasnt as bad as i thought it would be and i was hoping that i could stick through going this whole week. but im having such a bad night that i think ill be spending it on the toilet all night and i probably wont get sleep. I tried laying down and sleeping which trust me i usually never have aproblem with even when things are bothering me.. when im tired i sleep no matter what never really had sleeping problems.. a couple lately but for the most part not really.. but i tried laying down but my stomach is in such pain that i try to sleep but i have a neverending pain that i just cant sleep over it. I really cant pretend its not hurting me because its pretty bad. So yeah im awake.. I dont know what im going to do because now when i have a bad night theres usually no way i can go to school the next day.. bad night= bad day... or no sleep all night = dead for school... so yeah i pretty much know ill be missing tomorrow.. and it upsets me becuase i just had to go through all day today talking to people asking me how i am thank god im oikay.. and now im gonna be absent again and theyre all gonna be like WHAT THE HECK girl .. whats up...
my parents have gotten wayy better with my situation and they let me decide what i want to do now becuase theyve realized forcing me to deal with my ibs causes a panic attack no doubts.. and they dont want that.. so they let me do what in my mind is best... so i dont know.. since ive been absent so much and school just started im considering homeschooling 11th grade.. just so i can have time to myself to experiment with medicines on my stomach and a ll kinds of things hoping for a cure so i can be fine senior year and college. I have a pros and cons list though becuase I am not going to lie to you with all these problems.. I manage to have a wholeeee lot of friends. I dont like to consider myself popular because i feel like that word describes stuck up people, which im definantly not especially because im so understanding since i go through this everyday. but i can definantly be put as popular.. so i would be upset becuase i would feel like i would loose friends and not be invited to like things anymore because im not in school and all sorts of things but then again i dont really have classes with any of my friends or see them through out the day so it wouldnt really make a difference except i wont be able to participate in school sports or clubs.. I'm taking my chances Im pretty sure..
well sorry for babbling i feel like you guys really understand me and im sorry if this is all such stupid teenage drama life but haha im pathetic okay well im gonna go have a bad stomach episode of my life.. bye goodnight people
Mr.Tibbs
09-25-2007, 01:11 PM
First I'de like to appologize to the editor for putting too much info in my last posting, new guy mistake, I'll try to avoid that in the future.
Dear tummy problem: I'm sorry to here about your difficulties with school. I had to go through college for 5 years with many similar problems. My IBS did everything to stop me from attending classes. College is a bit different in that most proffessors don't take attendence so missing isn't quite as obvious and at big schools their are so many faces in the room nobody notices except your friends. For me, going to class worked great as a distraction, especially if it was a subject I enjoyed, usually science, history, geology, but english and math got my IBS all rilled up everytime. I found that if I studied alot and knew the subjects, my symptoms were less severe, I became a top notch student as a result. It was a long road to go from "Class Clown":jester: , which I had been most of my life, to mature, focused, "Destroy the curve guy". Another thing that seemed to help a bit was to really "take in" the morning walk to school, whether it was from my apartment or from the parking spot that always seemed to be ten miles away from campus. Just sort of try to allow for a long, slow strole, take in the views. I used to always watch the birds, especially the crows that always seemed to be in the leaveless trees during the fall and winter semesters. Hang in there and try to keep it all in perspective, let your friends help you, they can get you through hell, mine sure did. Stay focused, be strong, stay relaxed, and go for it!:D
Friendlee
09-25-2007, 07:18 PM
Definitely not silly high school drama. High school social life is very important with lots of tests and lessons for the development of your character. (although it sounds like you are a pretty mature high school student). It is really hard in high school, but as Mr. Tibbs sort of said, it can get easier in college.
I ended up taking one semester off school early in college. My parents said they would support me for ONE semester so I could get my health under control. I researched and called the doctor and tried new things like it was my full time job. I sort of fell off the face of the earth for that semester and some friends even got mad because I was terrible at calling them back and just didn't have the mental energy to talk, go to lunch, go out to the bars etc. Eventually, after feeling better, I jumped right back in and we're all still friends and I am almost 30.
After that semester I felt SO SO SO much better. I learned a lot about herbs and kept a food/symptom journal. I had time to make foods that were healthy and research recipes that consisted of the foods that were best for me at that time. I was just finally able to clear the fog, get things under control and then I was set. Homeschooling might seem like a tough solution, but years and years of struggling and stressing out honestly would be a much tougher solution. I think it is worth a try. Is it really doable? Do you have a homeopathic doctor in your area? If so, they will sit with you for about an hour or more just getting your past symptoms straight and asking lots of questions. They really get to know you and understand YOU rather than a textbook chapter they read in med school that somewhat resembles you. The treatment ends up being very effective and tailored to your exact circumstance. Is that a possibility for you?
tummyproblems
09-26-2007, 01:04 AM
im not really sure about if theres a homepathic doctor near here..but anyway i think homeschooling would be an option especially because i can just take a semester off like you would in college.. and i would much rather take off now then have to take off later in life like college
tummyproblems
09-27-2007, 06:21 PM
im being homeschooled now
Friendlee
09-27-2007, 08:51 PM
How are you? Are you okay with it? I think it will be the best choice for now. Maybe you could start a food/symptom journal today. Hang in there. Without the pressure of possible embarrassment at school, maybe your anxiety will go down and you gut will have a chance to calm down and begin some healing. Let us know how it goes....I'm pulling for you!
melissadawn12
09-30-2007, 06:35 PM
good luck! i hope everything goes well for you! =]
tummyproblems
10-01-2007, 02:49 PM
its okay but now that im home im realizing how much i wish i can be in school.. but i just cant.. I dont know i want to fix up my stomach and catch up on everything before i go back
mnb
10-22-2007, 11:09 PM
Hi -
I was actually looking at another board but saw your message. I don't really even know how to do this as I'm very new at these "boards." I have another issue I was looking for - but - I have a daughter who also has IBS. She started at the same age as you - 8th or 9th grade. I completetly understand your frustration, pain and difficulties with the entire situation. I don't have a magic cure but will tell you that it's "not in your head" (and yes, her dad thinks it is) but I do have some suggestions. These are things I did and my daughter did. If your mother understands, enlist her help. If not - have your doctor/nurse/other relative be your advocate. Get a written statement from your doctor explaining your IBS. Go to the principle and put it in front of him - make arrangement (with his help) with your teachers for things like taking tests and missing class without problems. Talk to your teachers about a "signal" that you can have simply between the two of you where you can quietly leave the room if you need too. My daughter did and still does homework in the bathroom! (she's in college now - community - smaller classes, more control) Yes, you're going to have some major meltdowns. It IS frustrating at times. Be good to yourself. Fried foods, heavy foods are very hard. We're trying some naturalpathic things now...too soon to tell. Make sure you have been tested for some basics - gluten, allergies, etc. Some medications can really help people - find a doctor that you're comfortable with that will take a younger patient and be your own advocate. This is hard stuff for a young person - it's hard on anyone but there are many worse things to have (I know, I know - that's a lame statement) Try not to stress about going out with friends because of the bathroom - a good friend will understand. Have sleepovers at YOUR house where you're comfortable and can have food around that won't upset your stomach. My daughter has both kinds of IBS so it's a battle - it's very individual. I hope some of this helps. I'll try to find you again, but no matter what, keep trying to find ways that help - ask, ask, ask people or read whatever you can. We're still searching but there just has to be something that helps out there. Good luck.
IBS mom.
Friendlee
10-23-2007, 09:04 AM
Did I already mention Colostrum? Boy, it sure helped set things on the right path for me. It actually healed the lining of the colon. And then I was able to use other remedies that controlled the D and C.
sarahbellum
10-24-2007, 05:49 AM
Hey tummyproblems,
Sorry if I missed this, but have you been to a specialist, i.e. a gastroenterologist, and had a full workup done on your digestive system? I had stomach issues (diarrhea, bloating, gas, pain, etc) for my entire childhood. I went to a gastorenterologist when I was 21 and he really helped me. My problems turned out to mostly be due to lactose intolerance, but with IBS thrown in for good measure.
If you have been to a traditional specialist and are still having problems, I would definitely seek out the help of a naturopath. They might be able to prescribe something non-traditional for you.
You really sound like you're heading down the path of becoming homebound, which is no good especially for someone of your age. I was afraid to leave the house for fear of being somewhere with no bathroom, and I felt paralyzed. Not fun. It sounds like you've done a lot so far to help yourself, and I encourage you to keep trying.
bellybummed1
10-25-2007, 10:52 PM
I read through some of these posts and sad to say that I know exactly what you're experiencing. IBS has taken over my life-was home-bound for a VERY long time-got back on my feet and was "normal" for over a year and then fell flat again-which is where I am now. Tried specialists, herbal remedies, and everything else under the sun. The thing that I think helped me the most was a yoga class that I joined and committed to-although VERY expensive at this place-but I love it...
My question is: Has anyone tried any of the colon cleansing products out there? I was thinking about it as a last ditch effort sorta thing but I read so many conflicting reviews online. Thanks everyone!