Hey, I have LOTS of hair, i like it though. I love to grow it out because it has this special thing it does when it's really long and it looks so awesome, everyone compliments it haha, it's not girly either. The only problem is it is so stiff, it gets oily so I must wash it everyday too. Whenever I run or the wind blows my hair, it looks so bad and because of it's stiffness, it stays that way. I'm looking for something that will just totally soften my hair so when it blows in the wind it will just blow then become normal again. I want asian- flexible hair if you know what I mean. Any help would be really appreciated thanks!