Hi there..

I was making out iwht a guy and he was showing me a tatoo on his side which required him taking off his shirt. He had some large.. quarter size adn some smaller size marks "stains" like on his back ONLY. the smaller ones looked like acne marks but he had a dark-olive skin tone. one large i notice on his upper back and back of the arm. almost like a bruise but it was even in color.

So when I asked what these marks were he said "what? there' snothing on my back". We've only made out. When we went to bed, he took off everything but his shirt, even though it was dark. No intercourse took place because I didn't know what to think.

He did 'finger' me so harshly that i was bleeding for 3 days. We were out ot dinner earlier so i know he had no cuts on his hands (not that I saw any).

I'd think marks in late stage of hiv would be all over your body unless they start out in areas then spread. it was just nothing I have ever seen before.

What exactly is your question? I'm assuming you're worried that you might have HIV. I wouldn't worry so long as no intercourse took place. You need to understand that even though YOU were bleeding, he wasn't. Even if he had cuts, they'd probably be dry. HIV does not survive in dried blood. I highly doubt he has HIV or AIDS. Purple spots DO occur in late stage AIDS patients, but keep in mind that these are LATE stage, if they were at this point, they should be in a hospital. I believe those spots you're referring to is Karposis Sarcoma, a rare skin cancer that AIDS patients often get. These typically cover almost all skin surfaces, not just a few spots. It will look like giant chicken spots and are incredibly painful. If you are still worried, go get tested (I hate when people tell ME to do this, but it is true.) And no, you don't need to wait 6 months to get tested. As I found out by calling the CDC, HIV will show itself within week of infection. Get tested and be sure. If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I've done tons of research on HIV because I at one point thought I had it from a tattoo (I don't thanfully).