can having genital herpes decrease the chances of getting pregnant and also is it unsafe to get cloimid over the counter other than going threw all the procedures with my gyn....?

It doesn't decrease your chances of getting pregnant. It is possible to pass the virus to a newborn through the birth canal - but that can be addressed at the time of pregnancy, either with a C-section or by meds, so that this really is a non-issue.

i've no idea what cloimid is. You said you wanted to avoid all the "procedures" with your gyn. Have you been diagnosed?? If not, get thee to a doctor, because you don't want to treat anything with any kind of mediation without know first what you have.