:angel:hi guys, well never thought i,d ever feel pain as i did today my most treasured mate left me today,the only true person that understood and loved me for me . the only person that didn't judge me, didn't call me lazy,didn't want more from me then i could give.fibro hurts me everyday, but wow what do i do now, my soul hurts my heart hurts no pain killer will fix that, i lost my father years ago, my mum is still here , the only true friend that understood and cared to read about fibro has gone to a better place, what do i do now :angel::confused:

(((((((((((((((((Jo))))))))))))))))))) .. hugs to you.....so sorry for the pain in your heart and fibro pain. Know that this board and group of people will be here to listen and be here for you when you need their love and support...they are an amazing group of humans...make sure you come in often to rely on their support and love to help you get through the dark days and times.

You will get through this, you have to have faith, and know we all care.

Carla

I'm so sorry for your loss, i know exactly how you feel. i too lost a very dear friend last week. she had been suffering with cancer and slipped into a coma before she died, so it was a bitter sweet ending. i'm so sorry to lose her, will miss her terribly, but i know now she's flying high, and that alone gives me peace.

though her suffering was so different then mine, we were able to understand a little more than others what pain meant. hopefully i was able at times to comfort her as she had me, many times.

as to what to do now? i'm not sure. I know i wil be praying alot for my friend and also her family. and as far as support goes, as CG said,we both have found many friends now on board who are more than willing to listen and help when help is needed. jojim, count me in as one of those friends.

stay well,,,,,,,stars

((((((gentle hugs)))))), I too lost a friend this week. Like yours, she was one of the few who never judged me. She had RDS so she understood what constant pain is like. Be gentle with yourself right now. I thought I was holding up so well.... today, I crashed and burned. And, that's okay. They were our friends and our support. Mary

Dear Jojim:

Such anquish (a heavy heart is so hard to bear). I send healing thoughts your way. . .

Bless you,
Kirstee

JoJim & Mary, very sorry to hear about your losses. It is hard to lose any loved one, and I am sure it is even more devasational when it is part of your support system. May memories of happier times spent with your loved ones sustain you through your grief. Hopefully they will still be able to help support and nurture you, just from a different place now in your heart.

thank you everyone for your kind words and support, stayed in bed most of the past two days,cried my heart out, ive been off meds for a few weeks now i was so proud of myself, but i have had to take some sleepers, and painkillers, not that they can ever kill the pain i,m feeling. I HATE THIS THING IT HAS TAKEN SO MUCH FROM ME AND I GUESS ALL OF YOU TOO ..