i have been a member sine 05 its been 2 yrs 1 month since i posted last and oooohhh boy what a past 2 yrs it has been...first off i met this wonderful gal from central florida gotten married, had my 5th and last son his name is thomas...3 months old...lol...in april of this yr i was diagnosed with stage 3 prostate cancer im 35 yrs of age then 36 now lol.....my wife stuck by my side 100 percenti was out of work for 3 months then surgery took 4 hrs.....april up untill last week all was well some how i busted my left shoulder i do not know how i had 3 rips ad tears in my shoulder the first one was from front of shoulderall the way to the back, inside the joint was totally gone. thirdly they had to CUT REMOVE the main bicep muscle tendon...off work now for close to 4 monthsin six weeks il will be having surgery on my left hand for carpal tunnel tyhen on my right not to mention several degening discs in my back (the orignal reason for joining this) as well as my bipolarism and adhd....sounds like a lot of trouble huh? lol....u just gotta know how to deal, and having god in my life has made it a lot easier:jester: