i have just turned 21, and once again i could not get a nice strappless dress to wear as no where does strapless bra's in my size. i am a 30J and depressed. i physically hate them and often punch or bite them (not hard enough to leave bruises or anything but i presume not everyone does that!) i feel that if i go to see the doctor about it i will start crying, this is y ive been wanting one for a long time and not done anything about it...... honestly, i dont think i ever will, i dont know what to do!!! plz some one post me something back, i really wanna chat to someone about this.