hey girls anyone heard from princess yet so anxious to hear the news

~Danielle

No news yet Danielle I am trying to stay awake and hear her news.They do say no news is good news right?Well lets pray its good news.Princess waiting and praying sweetie.

Love,

Mapia:angel:

Thank you so much ladies!! Well, it's BFN. I"m sorry. :(
I"m so disappointed. It's negaative. I don't know why I have been feeling crampy and sore then, with no AF. My gyn says just to wait until Jan 28th, ten more days. And if no AF, then on Jan 28th, go for another beta. He'll see me on the 29th, and if the beta is negative, then we'll try Clomid. :(

Sorry ladies, that's all from me today. I'm sad.

Hope everyone has a great weekend.

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Princess, I almost can't believe it. I was so sure. I'm so very very sorry sweetie, of course you're sad and disappointed. Get some rest this weekend and take some time to yourself to regroup. Treat yourself to some wine or sweets! And try to have a good weekend, too.

(((HUGS))) (((HUGS)))

Christin

Oh no Princess sweetie, I am SO sorry! :( I know you must be sad and my heart goes out to you. Give yourself time to feel sad, maybe have a good cry, and always know we are here for you and will give you a shoulder if you need it. I think I like your doctor though. I'm glad he has a back up plan for you and is prepared to take the next step if it's necessary to make sure your following cycle will bring you a BFP. Warm (((hugs))) to you sweetie.

Oh Princess sweetie, what can I say? I know how disappointed you are and I am so sorry. It is twice as hard to take the negatives when everything is pointing to a positive. You have a wonderful RE and I am sure that given a bit more time it WILL happen for you. Don't forget that it wasn't all that long ago that you had your surgery. It may take a couple of cycles but I know your BFP is coming.

(((Big hugs)))

Ruby

Oh NO Princess I am so sorry sweetie I was praying you would get that BFP.I wanted to go to bed happy.Sending you big comforting hugs sweetie.There are no words I can say right now.Just dont get to down it will happen you just had surgery so I am sure that BFP will be here real soon.Take care sweetie and know we love you so much.

Love ya,

Mapia

It's been difficult. Especially since I just got an email from my young (15 years old) cousin saying she's pg. and the only thing I could think is "That
B!tch stole my baby!" :( Now I sound totally crazy. :dizzy: What makes it worse is that she says going to get an abortion. I wish I coudl reach through the computer and smack her.

Kari, I like my doctor too. :) After this appointment he said "Now honey, I don't want you to be too sad. My job isn't over until you are holding your babies, all of them. And I promise you, I won't waste your time." :) I trust him.

Ruby, you're right, my body probably just needs a few cycles to straighten out. I'll get there. LOL---all this positive thinking was great practice LOL.

Mapia, sweetheart, I am sorry I couldn't give you better news. But we'll get there sometime! We will get there :)

Christin, you're right, I think this weekend I"m just going to relax and not do anything. I just want to put my feet up and not go to a mall and see babies and baby things.

I love you all so much.

Sweetie, that was an awful e-mail to receive from your cousin. I totally understand you wanting to smack her and your feeling robbed. I just don't understand sometimes (lots of times, actually). Well Princess, I've put a spin on this, and I hope you don't mind. This just means that our little ones will be closer in age, and when I visit Canada in a couple years, our little ones will be perfect playmates, and we'll have a wonderful time watching them play and entertain us:D:D:D

Did it work at all? Maybe a little smile?:jester:

Make sure DH pampers you all weekend, and tell him it will be good practice for the real deal:cool:

More (((hugs))) coming your way!

Love,
Christin

Im so sorry it was a BFN, I felt so sure it was going to be a BFP as Im sure everyone here did too. Im sending you heaps of cyber hugs and hope you will take some time for yourself this weekend to relax. How is DH taking it, is he ok? I just know you will get your BFP very soon.

Cashahn xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

:D That did make me smile! They'll be perfect playmates! It was a lovely spin, and I do appreciate it, very very, much!

My cousine has always been stupide and thoughtless. I'm just pretending I never read that. Besides once her parents find out, they'll never let her out of the house again :D

Cashahn, thank you so much. I will take this weekend to rest and relax and not worry abotu anyhitng. DH doesn't know yet....he was so hopeful, I"m not quite sure how to tell him. I just know I'll have to strong for him... I'm not quite up to that yet. :(

Princess, you are taking this very well - I am so proud of you!

I am sorry about the e-mail you received from your cousin. I imagine hearing news like that would be upsetting at any time and twice as hard just now.

Take it easy this weekend and make sure you focus completely on yourself. Maybe have a few glasses of wine or a nice strong cup of espresso - anything to make you feel as though you are being indulgent and spoiling yourself.

More hugs coming your way.

Ruby

I thinkI'm going to eat canned pasta for dinner. Dora the Explorer. :) And then a Coke. I'm going to spoil myself tonight :) I"m trying to be as strong as possible... I have to call my mother and my sister and tell DH....there are so many I have to be strong for. But when I'm alone, I cry. I'm going to try to be stronger. :)

Princess, I am so sorry for you sweetie but just know your BFP will come and the fact that you have a great dr. is half the battle........since you just had the surgury I am sure your body is getting back to normal and if you think of it like this maybe it will help.........on any given cycle a couple with no fertility problems has only a 25% chance of becoming pregnant..........so since your surgury I bet its really the first time you could have become pregnant and your body just needs a little more time to give that little baby a home. I bet in a few monthes time you are very knocked up :) So try and stay positive and just give it a little more time...because I know that you will have that BFP very soon. Take care of yourself, I will be sending lots of hugs your way. You are such an inspiration and even though things aren't easy today they will get better and when you have the elusive BFP you will feel so blessed and lucky and love your babies because of the journey that brings them home to you.:angel:AimeeM

Well now I am CERTAIN that I like your doctor! His attitude should set an example for all who practice in the medical profession! You are gonna be holding your babies soon, I know it sweetie. I'm sorry for the disturbing e-mail your cousin sent. I really hope she doesn't end up aborting... there are so many loving couples who would be over the moon to adopt her baby, it's just a shame she even is thinking about it. But don't let her get you down... your babies are coming sweetie, I promise you they are :angel:

Oh Princess, I am SO sorry!!! I really was hoping to log onto some good news when I got home. I really am sorry, but I agree with everyone -- it may take a cycle or two, but you are going to get that BFP and it is going to be SOON, especially since your surgery went and worked so well. Spoil yourself like crazy this weekend and I hope you can relax a bit.

I'm sorry about the email from your cousin. It really is frustrating, but we will be mothers, and you and DH are going to be such great, loving, deserving parents that all of these things won't matter anymore.

Your doctor sounds amazing. I got goosebumps reading what he said to you. You are very lucky, and he made you a promise -- so he'll be sure that he helps get you there too.

I am very sorry, and I'm sending you lots and lots of hugs!!

Love ya,
Kelley

Aimee-- you're right. I mean, technically this is my first offical cycle, or somehting, right? So, it'll be all right! :D I'm going to get my babies someday and until then, I'm going to keep hoping and thinking positively. :)

Kari-- I'm glad you like him too!! :D He really is a dear, and I do trust him, and I told him so. As for that email, I"m just working on an emial, tryin gto sound as wise and supportive as I can---even though I dont feel that way. I'm trying to convince her towards adoption (without smacking her) because so many people out there want to love a child.

Kelley-- Hi dearest! I"m sorry I couldn't give you some good news. I'm gong to spoil myself like crazy this weekend. Right now, I"ve ordered Chinese and I"m eating canned pasta. :p You're right, we're going to be mothers, and very soon!! I just have no idea how to tell DH...

I'm directing all my prayers to you ladies, I hope that we can get some more BFPs going!!!!

All right ladies, I"m going to have my Chinese and watch tv. I love you all... I don't knwo what I'd do without you :) I'll talk to you all on Monday!! Have a good weekend!!

**********babydust***********

Princess, I just read your news, and I am so sorry. We all thought the signs were pointing to bfp. Everyone is right though. Your surgery wasn't long ago at all & it won't be long before you do see your bfp & we are all celebrating w/ tears of joy. :) Sending you warm hugs sweetie. Have a good weekend and be sure to take care of yourself.

Love,

Holly

Princess,
Your doctor said exactly the right thing...and it's something we all would like to hear. I believe him. just have faith and give yourself some time and your dreams will come true, hun!

Princess, I'm so sorry for the bad news.:( I was sure that you'd get your BFP this time- all the signs were there. It's not over until AF shows up. Your positive attitude is an example to me, continue to keep your head up . But in the mean time rest and relax and enjoy yourself for a while.

Sending you ((((hugs))))

Pinkie

Hi Princess, I am SO sorry about the result I was also sure that this was it for you, but like the others said your body needs time to recover after surgery and you will be posting a BFP very soon.

I also like your DR he seem really genuine. I am glad that you have found him and he is going to make sure you get your BFP.

I am sorry to hear about your cousin who is pg and wants to abort. I hope she decides to give it up for adoption rather as there will be a lovely couple willing to adopt her baby. I also feel like slapping her.

I hope you have a good weekend and relax with a glass of wine. I hope that DH take the new well. Thinking of you sweetie.

Love you
Charlene

Oh Princess! I am so sorry it was bfn. I was really hoping it was a bfp and your wish was coming true already. I know it is hard to tell DH, I used to hate doing it and i would walk up to him and say "it didn't work" and then burst into tears. and then just sit there with my head on his shoulder and cry and he would cry too and say "we'll just try again, that's all we can do". i can replay it in my head as if it was yesterday. I am so glad you are spoiling yourself. i used to drink soda and coffee and maybe even a cocktail when AF arrived just so i could try to feel normal. do whatever it takes to make yourself feel good.

If i remember correctly, you had traveled for the holiday and sometimes that can throw your body off. combined with the surgery your body might have just been confused. last year this time i had traveled for the holiday too and came back to a bfn. i never believed that old story about people going away for a vacation and that's when it happens. not for me. it didn't happen for me immediately after the HSG or the Lap either. so don't feel hopeless. for some of us it just takes a few more cycles to get ourselves ready and then Bam! BFP!

I think your doctor sounds like a wonderful man who is commited to helping you become pregnant and i know he will succeed. take care and remember we are all here with our cheerleading outfits on gearing up to help cheer you through the next cycle. and you aren't officially out of the game until AF shows so I remain hopeful until then.

Princess, I'm sorry I'm a bit late here, but more sorry to hear about your BFN. I think we were all sure it was a BFP for you. I hope you've had fun spoiling yourself so far this weekend, and I hope the remainder goes well. - April