I just recently found out i had herpes, I showed + for HSV1, but she first said it looked like zoster, but who knows at this point. The jerk that I was with 45 days before that was a player. I sometimes think that was too long incubation but I don't really know. Anyway, it was in my butt crack, not on my genitals or anus at all. It was about the size of a silver dollar. Just wondering if that is common or uncommon. thank you

45 day incubation might be a little longer than usual, but it's certainly not extreme. Nor is the location of your outbreak