i have been on birth control (few different ones) for about 8 years now. i've been on junel fe 1/20 for about the last yr. i would say for about 2 yrs. now i have NO sex drive whatsoever and really could use some help. i'm 38 so this is not good. i'm thinking of totally going off the pill, but then i will get nervous if and when i am late (which even with the pill i wasn't on time), even though my bf uses a condom. don't know what to do

Have you ever tried Ovcon-35? Actually, I think the name has been changed to 'Femcon' now. Anyway, while I was on it, my sex drive actually increased. When I took it, it was still called Ovcon-35, but I think the Femcon is the same formula, though.