So, DH and i had a consult visit today with RE.

My beta was down to a 3 ( i already knew it didn't work, but whatever).
My doc suggested some time off, not alot, just like a month to relax and not jump RIGHT back into things.

We looked at a calendar and decided on Mid April to start stims, which would put E/R around first week of May.
I'm perfectly fine with that.
I need a small break. DH and I are going to try to go on vacation to have some fun together. I'm going to try to stay busy, maybe read some good books, drink lots of alcohol (just joking), and next cycle will be here pretty quickly.
Thanks so much for being here for me.
I'll keep checking in on everyone for updates!:)

Hi Bees,
That sounds like a perfect plan. I am so sorry it didn't work out for you this time, but I'm sure your RE will get it just right next tme. And I'm sure the time will fly by until you start stims, especially if you have that holiday and devour a few good books with a glass of wine;) You so deserve to treat yourselves and take it easy, and it will be good to have the time to build up your strength before April. Look after yourself sweetie.
Lizzie

Hi Bees I am so glad that you have decided on a new plan already:D. Taking a break will do you and DH the world of good especially if you take a vacation. :D. Drink as much wine as you like on your break you deserve it. Mid of April wll be here before you know it and you will be on your way to a BFP.

Enjoy this time now with DH and like you said have some fun.

Thinking of you.

Charlene

Bees,

I'm glad that you were able to meet with the RE so soon, and that you have a plan in place. Although I'm very sorry that you've had to deal with this, I'm really hoping that this little break will be what your body needs to prepare for your next cycle so that it will be all ready for your BFP. I'm happy that you're ready and looking forward.

Love,
Kelley

Bees, I think that's a great plan. Taking just a month or so off and getting back into the swing of things. I'm really hoping that this break is the key to your BFP, and you know what, I think it is. :angel: Good luck and have lots of fun!

Hi Bee

I'm so pleased that you have come up with a new plan of attack. Going on vacation is a wonderful idea and I am sure that you will come home feeling refreshed and ready to begin a new cycle.

(((Hugs)))

Ruby

Bees.... :angel: you've been in my thoughts... so glad that you've got a sound and sensible plan already!... a vacation sounds perfect... and a great way to spend quality time together without the stresses and strains....

will be eagerly looking fwd to your return from vacation... :angel: have a restful break and take good care of yourself! :angel:

Hi Bees sounds like you have a good plan a break will probably be really good.Have a great time on your vacation and gather some energy for your next cycle.Take care of yourself thinking of you.Take care.

Mapia

Hello Bees,

Sounds like it is a perfect time for a vacation. Hope you and DH have a wonderful time and get lots of rest and relaxation. Especially this time of year when we all have the winter blues. Hope you really enjoy yourself and don't even give this whole IF thing another shot and just live for the moment and drink some wine and be carefree.

we will all be cheering you on again when you get back:angel:

Hi Bees. I'm so glad you have a new plan sweetie. I've been thinking about you. From the sounds of it, you and I could be cycling very close together with our next IVF's. Really praying it'll be the last for us both! Enjoy the short break. You deserve a good, relaxing rest!