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babydiva
03-13-2008, 11:00 PM
Hi guys! My ex ex b/f's mom died a couple days ago. She was only 51 and died of cancer. She had it in her uterus then it went away for a couple years. It came back and I think it spread to her lungs. She had a lung removed and then the cancer went to her brain. I heard this. And well she was a heavy smoker. so ya... Anyway I'm wondering if it's possible to tell my friends about it. They are pregnant. One is due April 18. Her sister is due June 15. My friends knew my ex ex b/f's mom very well and she was like a second mother to them. They knew her since they were young I think because one of them dated my ex ex b/f way before me. So she obviously knew him before me and his mom. I don't know what to do because they are also really good friends of mine. I never had a problem with them. So I'm not sure if I should mention the death of my ex ex b/f's mom to them or not. I don't want them to grieve and possibly loose their babies. And hate me in the process for breaking that news to them at that time. Should I tell them? Or keep it to myself and have them find out another way? I don't know what to do. I'm not sure they can find out I knew and didn't tell them if I don't say anything right? I could always tell them I didn't have their number that I lost it if somehow they find out I knew and didn't tell them although I don't see how. But I feel gulity for not telling. So what if I tell them and they loose their babies because of grieving? I feel I should tell them, but can't....

 
 
 




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