I bet that many men would find your nipples sexy.. they tend to love it when they see something "new". Think about it. Not many will be like yours. But if it really bothers you, you could go to a cosmetic tattoo artist and have them tattoo a darker shade around your nipples, cancer victims with reconstruction get it done often.. it wouldnt be the same texture as a real aerola, but it would look good. Another alternative is to wait until after you have kids.. pregnancy tends to permanently increase the size of your areola. Good luck hun, and if that's the biggest of your worries, you are damn lucky!