I could eat chocolate ice cream with pecan brownies and have sex but the awful plague call herpes have haulted some of the sweet joys I use to love about life. Smacks myself in the head for not remaining a virgin http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif. Bad decisions lead to bad consequences.

hey,
yeah you could have stayed a virgin until marriage, but whose to say that your husband might not have had asymptomatic herpes, or strayed and given you herpes, or you come to realize after marriage that your not compatiable sexually with your partner. There are many and/if/but's in life,It's all part of the learning experience. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif