I am a newlywed and was just dx today. I am QUITE upset about this. I have been in monogamous relationships always.

I got Valtrex #20 PO BID and started it. The itching and burning are KILLING me...what can I do to help it?

Also what helps to prevent outbreaks?

Hi... I'm really sorry to hear about the bad news, but know that you aren't the only one, and believe it or not, this board really helps alot! You can reduce your o/b's by getting lots of exercise, eating healthy, and most of all: avoid STRESS!!!

It is true that you should try to avoid stress, but if you are anything like me, that is damn near impossible. Avoid exposure to the sun also. I sometimes go tanning naked and that will make things flare up. If it helps any, herpe symptoms are always worse the first year, after that, things get better and reoccurences get less and less...if that makes sense

Oh! I forgot to answer the entire question...when I was diagnosed I begged my dr. for pain killers and he gave them to me. And when you start to heal, your scabs/scars may start to fall off (sorry this is going to be graphic) and when they do you may become, uh, stuck to your underwear while healing. That really hurts and you should try wearing a pad when you heal!

omgnotme...Congrats about the marriage...I know it must be hard to have to deal with this during your happy time. Does your mate have it as well?