Gooba,I took your advice and did a couple of things.I first looked on the internet and found some other sites on heart attacks that had information,but also boards.I was amazed at the diverse questions and the intense emotions that are displayed there in their writing.I could relate to what they were going through.I also found a local support group and attended a meeting.There is nothing that beats having people there and communicating your ideas,fears and thoughts.
You have always said that it was like night and day in comparison here.I now see why you have your perspective,and I think it is right on the money.I never reall understood your point about levels of tolerance until I went out and looked and participated in those discussions.I do now.What an eye opener.
So,Gooba,I want to thank you for your insight and your suggestion to go look at other sites.From me and my family,THANKS!!!