skych
06-23-2008, 09:30 AM
Hi evereyone:wave:
I just wanted to send out a huge thank you to all of you who read and responded to my thread to help me through a difficult time!
This board is amazing! The folks here are so kind. It was tough going physically for a few days and I am finally feeling better. Back to the normal pains. Which by the way ~~~ I am glad to have rather than the bad spasams and of course the unmentionables!!! LOL
Also, A special thanks and A (((((hug))))) to those members that went out of their way to stick clsoe to the board and talk with me in a quick and fast posting manor.
Thanks for reaching out to me when I needed support. Wrods can not express my gratitude!;)
~~~~~~:angel:~~~~~~:angel:~~~~~~:angel:~ ~~~~~
Chrissy
I just wanted to send out a huge thank you to all of you who read and responded to my thread to help me through a difficult time!
This board is amazing! The folks here are so kind. It was tough going physically for a few days and I am finally feeling better. Back to the normal pains. Which by the way ~~~ I am glad to have rather than the bad spasams and of course the unmentionables!!! LOL
Also, A special thanks and A (((((hug))))) to those members that went out of their way to stick clsoe to the board and talk with me in a quick and fast posting manor.
Thanks for reaching out to me when I needed support. Wrods can not express my gratitude!;)
~~~~~~:angel:~~~~~~:angel:~~~~~~:angel:~ ~~~~~
Chrissy
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Moldova
06-23-2008, 10:09 AM
Chrissy,
thank you, dear, for such nice words. I so agree with you about people on this board and I am happy to be here as well. Support I got during all this time through my ordeal is amazing and I am glad to be a part of this board to be able to help others.
Stay well, honey, and I hope everything will go well for you!
Hugs and Blessings to you!:angel:
thank you, dear, for such nice words. I so agree with you about people on this board and I am happy to be here as well. Support I got during all this time through my ordeal is amazing and I am glad to be a part of this board to be able to help others.
Stay well, honey, and I hope everything will go well for you!
Hugs and Blessings to you!:angel:
123dietdrpepper
06-23-2008, 10:19 AM
Chrissy, glad to help. We all wish only the best for each other and we all understand the wrath of severe pain. It is the pits and that is when you need the support more than ever.
True friends are there for one another when the times are rough.
True friends are there for one another when the times are rough.
Round1
06-23-2008, 07:26 PM
hi there Chrissey,
Glad you are feeling abit better. Good to see your post. Yes this board is wonderfull I must I find it a great comfort, knowing someone has and answer or help and advice to give. I suppose really what makes it work is ALL OF US, its we doing the answering etc., and helping. So really I think it is a well done to US for making it such a good site, you are never waiting long for someone to help which I think is really a great comfort.
Take care
Round1
Glad you are feeling abit better. Good to see your post. Yes this board is wonderfull I must I find it a great comfort, knowing someone has and answer or help and advice to give. I suppose really what makes it work is ALL OF US, its we doing the answering etc., and helping. So really I think it is a well done to US for making it such a good site, you are never waiting long for someone to help which I think is really a great comfort.
Take care
Round1
Aver00
06-23-2008, 10:03 PM
Glad you are feeling better - it is always a good feeling when you can help and support someone else - I try not to but I sometimes feel so needy that it felt great to give a little support since you give so much to others - you have such a sweet spirit it is amazing you are able to maintain it
hugs Aver
hugs Aver
IZZY'SMOM
06-23-2008, 11:34 PM
I feel the same as Aver...about feeling needy.
I could post about every little thing that happens to me, and ive re-read my posts lately, and I feel Ive come across super needy. I know that is what the boards are for, but I dont want to be someone who keeps everyone feeling like they have to support me about my dramas. Asking for support is one thing, but posting every day and having a drama is not me, and I dont want to have ppl thinking Im a hypo-pain-chondriac. LOL Is that a word?
Maybe Im wrong for posting here, Chrissy you are trying to tell everyone thank you for pulling for you when you have rough times, and you are always so wonderful about being thankful. But Aver's post made me think about how ppl who are here trying to have support, have to go thru my downer posts. I want the opposite. i want ppl to gain strength from me, not always feel like all of my posts are needy and downer posts.
Chrissy, I can totally understand where you are coming from on the support end of it. It means a ton to me as well, and I hope you have a good weekend. I didnt mean to hijack your thread at all. I really didnt. If anything it made me appreciate everyone who helps us out in those times, just like you are giving thanks.
I did not mean to hi-jack your thread at ALL. Ill start a new one about how I feel.
xoxoxox,IZZY'SMOM
I could post about every little thing that happens to me, and ive re-read my posts lately, and I feel Ive come across super needy. I know that is what the boards are for, but I dont want to be someone who keeps everyone feeling like they have to support me about my dramas. Asking for support is one thing, but posting every day and having a drama is not me, and I dont want to have ppl thinking Im a hypo-pain-chondriac. LOL Is that a word?
Maybe Im wrong for posting here, Chrissy you are trying to tell everyone thank you for pulling for you when you have rough times, and you are always so wonderful about being thankful. But Aver's post made me think about how ppl who are here trying to have support, have to go thru my downer posts. I want the opposite. i want ppl to gain strength from me, not always feel like all of my posts are needy and downer posts.
Chrissy, I can totally understand where you are coming from on the support end of it. It means a ton to me as well, and I hope you have a good weekend. I didnt mean to hijack your thread at all. I really didnt. If anything it made me appreciate everyone who helps us out in those times, just like you are giving thanks.
I did not mean to hi-jack your thread at ALL. Ill start a new one about how I feel.
xoxoxox,IZZY'SMOM
123dietdrpepper
06-23-2008, 11:43 PM
Izzy, no one should feel bad about posting at anytime. This board is for posting during those difficult times. Granted it is great to see a positive post from time to time but some of us only have the board for support and lack having the home front support.
So everyone post away!! And Chrissy, you remember that we are here for you 24/7.
So everyone post away!! And Chrissy, you remember that we are here for you 24/7.
kim46
06-23-2008, 11:44 PM
Chrissy, glad you're better today!
music47
06-24-2008, 12:15 AM
Crissy
I am so glad you are feeling better:) My prayers are with you.
Gentle Hugs, Nadine:)
I am so glad you are feeling better:) My prayers are with you.
Gentle Hugs, Nadine:)
Aver00
06-24-2008, 12:42 AM
Izzyyou never come across needy to me - you come across as a bright, strong individual who is not afraid of voicing her needs but willing to put them out there to get the support of others - and just like Chrissy the voicing of those needs makes us all stronger - we are all here to cope with something that is unexplainable to others - no one wants to feel "less than" and just maybe all the issues we deal with make us feel that way -
that we all dogpiled Chrissy when she needed it says a lot about this group -
we know how to address our needs and be compassionate for the needs of others - we are all truly grateful that she is feeling better
For Izzy to say that she feels needy sometimes makes me feel not so alone
I have had a rough couple of weeks and Chrissy and Izzy, you both made it better - If you notice in the middle of Chrissy's crisis she took time to post to me about a gossipy friend (seems trivial in the scheme of things)
Hope this makes some sense but it is close to midnight here and I am getting sleepy hugs Aver
that we all dogpiled Chrissy when she needed it says a lot about this group -
we know how to address our needs and be compassionate for the needs of others - we are all truly grateful that she is feeling better
For Izzy to say that she feels needy sometimes makes me feel not so alone
I have had a rough couple of weeks and Chrissy and Izzy, you both made it better - If you notice in the middle of Chrissy's crisis she took time to post to me about a gossipy friend (seems trivial in the scheme of things)
Hope this makes some sense but it is close to midnight here and I am getting sleepy hugs Aver
IZZY'SMOM
06-24-2008, 02:29 AM
Thx, Aver~ you are very kind. I just dont want to have a post everyday about me. My hubby said something today about utilizing the board for support and not always being in a crisis, ect. Im not angry at him at all. If anything it opened my eyes 100% about how ppl who dont post, or new ppl may feel when Im always psting about my problems.
No biggie, Im happy for the feedback,and it made me open my eyes to a whole other side of the boards, ect. I cant really explain it. I want ppl to gain strength from me not be dragged down by my problems all of the time.
Sorry if this went off in an other direction~ and I appreciate everyones' support as well as Chrissy was saying in the original thread.
Hope everyone has a great weekend!!!
xoxoxox,
IZZY'SMOM
No biggie, Im happy for the feedback,and it made me open my eyes to a whole other side of the boards, ect. I cant really explain it. I want ppl to gain strength from me not be dragged down by my problems all of the time.
Sorry if this went off in an other direction~ and I appreciate everyones' support as well as Chrissy was saying in the original thread.
Hope everyone has a great weekend!!!
xoxoxox,
IZZY'SMOM
Aver00
06-24-2008, 02:43 AM
I get strength from you Izzy as well as everyone on this board "that's the beauty" part - thanks for all your sharing, I do think it is funny that you see yourself in crisis when others just see you in problem solving mode - there are no complainers here that I see - just everyone working out there problems with a gentle hand on their backs
sammyo1
06-24-2008, 08:16 AM
Chrissy, I am so glad you are feeling better. As I have said I worry about you being alone so at least with the board you can reach out & get the support you need. Your never really alone that way, you know? Take good care of yourself. Sammy
skych
06-24-2008, 09:41 AM
What a cool thread!!
You know we are all connected by the common pain thread and even though times are tough for all of us ~~~~~~~ We sure do know how to pull it together.
Izzy, I dont see you as needy. I don't see anyone as "needy" What I see is people reaching out for support----recieving it---then working through it---
This is what I call a process. We all use the process and it does work.
I know I can't do this thing alone so when I need it "help/support whatever" I reach out and ask for it.
What I hope is that others see the process and how we work through our issues ...from sad and toughf things to happy and loving things.
Pains are as they are for me today. A little elevated.
But I am wokring it.
Thanks to all....................:angel:
Chrissy
You know we are all connected by the common pain thread and even though times are tough for all of us ~~~~~~~ We sure do know how to pull it together.
Izzy, I dont see you as needy. I don't see anyone as "needy" What I see is people reaching out for support----recieving it---then working through it---
This is what I call a process. We all use the process and it does work.
I know I can't do this thing alone so when I need it "help/support whatever" I reach out and ask for it.
What I hope is that others see the process and how we work through our issues ...from sad and toughf things to happy and loving things.
Pains are as they are for me today. A little elevated.
But I am wokring it.
Thanks to all....................:angel:
Chrissy
Aver00
06-24-2008, 11:32 AM
Definitely a cool thread Chrissy!!!!!!!!!!!!
trowftd3
06-24-2008, 01:38 PM
Can't keep my mouth shut on this one....
Everyone here had good days and bad days. Sometimes it seems as if we're all having bad days at the same time but usually there is someone who can give support and tell us to not give up. So I don't see anyone complaining too much. Some of us need more support than others on any given day. No bigee!!;)
Chrissy, glad that you're feeling a little better. I remember waiting for my hubby's settlement check. We had ourselves convinced it was going to be tiny so when it did show up we were pleasantly surprised at how big it was!!
But, that doesn't mean it lassted very long!:D Take care,Mush
Everyone here had good days and bad days. Sometimes it seems as if we're all having bad days at the same time but usually there is someone who can give support and tell us to not give up. So I don't see anyone complaining too much. Some of us need more support than others on any given day. No bigee!!;)
Chrissy, glad that you're feeling a little better. I remember waiting for my hubby's settlement check. We had ourselves convinced it was going to be tiny so when it did show up we were pleasantly surprised at how big it was!!
But, that doesn't mean it lassted very long!:D Take care,Mush