4 weeks after an oral encounter with a women I felt 2 swollen under my chin, I went to the doctor and asked for ELISA and he did and it came -ve.
Then I started reading on the net about it and analyzed a lot time to time. But realized that if I don't touch it it will suppress, Which it did a little. But not sure, HOW MUCH IT SHOULD OR HOW LONG IT WILL TAKE??
Then one day (After 6th week I had burning pain behind my right ear and I can feel the gland swollen). I am not sure about my tounge, where it has some infection (Not sure about the whiteness of it, May be it was like before).
It has been over 8 week the gland did not suppress and I CAN STLLL FEEL THE PEA SIZE gland under my chin and the swollen gland behind on ear.
Except that nothing...

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My situation is very similar to yours in a sense that I had unprotected oral sex with a sex worker. It has been about 3 weeks in my case and I don't have any symptoms, other then weird feeling in my legs. It feels as if blood is circulating through them like really fast. I asked my doctor and she said it is not HIV related. Anybody else had similar experience?
Anyway, I was searching Net for symptoms and it's funny the way our minds work. When I read up on all this crap, I started imagining that I had them. I had the self inflicted pins and needles feeling in my legs, I had dry mouth for like 3 days(Probably cuz I was so nervous), I even imagined rashes and tongue coating that wasn;t there. My doc checked me out and told me I was fine and was just imagining things. GO and see your doctor, it will help a lot. Every morning I would wake up and start looking for problems with my body. Chances are, you always are gonna find something. I have calmed down since then and I feel much better and the dry mouth has gone away.
Speaking about tongue, it almost always look weird, we just usually don't examine it too much so I wouldn't be too worried about it.
Glands swell up in people from time to time this doesn't mean it's HIV.
Hang in there. We'll make it through this somehow