I had an encountered with a prositutute three nights ago. We had condom on initially during the sexual intercourse. But I was a little drunk and couln't get really hard. So my penis slipped out a few times and everytime she used her right hand to put my penis back in. Later, she decided to give me a handjob instead. So she removed the condom and used her right hand to give me a handjob.

Here is my concern:

During the intercourse, when my penis slipped out and she used her right hand to put it back in, her hand must have contacted the virginal fluids on the surface of the condom. Later she used the same hand to give me the hand job without a condom. Is it possible that the virginal fluids on her hand could find its way into my boby through the tip of my penis? On my way home that night, I also felt some burning sensations and pain on my penis. So I am also very worried that there was a minor cut on my penis and so the virginal fluids on her hand could enter my body through it.

Am I paranoid? Or do I have a legitimate reason to be concerned? What do u advice me to do?

Thanks.

Whoa ok you gotta relax man. Take a deep breath and calm down. Now your exposure if there was one is pretty darn low on the totom pole than many others. HIV is not known to be transmitted that way. Your risk is theoretical at best. The people infected with the virus are time and time again one's who have unprotected vaginal (actually pumping, not the virus coming outside the body and onto you 2-10 minutes later) Anal and in SOME cases oral sex. Intravenous drug use is another major, major problem as it is old fashioned blood to blood. Like i said before... you would be hard pressed to find a case where the behavior you exhibited resulted in an infection. I would go so far as to say testing is not warranted. If you want, wait three months and go grab a negative test.

Hi. I agree with the previous poster. Don't worry. The cut, was your only POSSIBLE risk-but her HAND was subjected to AIR, which kills the HIV virus immediately. You are fine, trust me.

along the same lines as this, i was drunk receiving oral from a hooker with a condom on. i could not keep it up so she took it off and put her mouth on my unit for no more than 10sec. before i made her stop. at this point i left the whole seen. i think she did give me herpes from this situation, even though it was so quick. i know i have to see a docter, but i am just wondering because it was so short is there still a high risk of contracting this virous. thanks in advance for your replys.

Concerned;
HIV can live in saliva, but it is VERY rare to contract HIV through oral sex. Oral sex, although there is some risk, is not a very risky act. The chances of contracting HIV through oral sex are slim. And, from what you describe, unless you had open wounds on your body that came in contact with her saliva, I would say your fine. There was probably not enough time or concentration of the virus for it to pass. Herpes is much easier to contract than HIV is situations like that. And remember, if she INSNT HIV+, then there is NO RISK!

If you are really concerned, see a Dr. He will be able to tell you whether or not a test is in order, and when. Good Luck and Be safe.

Just a little sidenoe on maybe helpful's comments. It is true that HIV has been isolated from saliva on the lab. However, it is widely accepted that saliva, sweat, and urine among others DO NOT transmit HIV.

Specifically, saliva has been found to possess an enzyme whose particular properties may aid in eliminating the effectiveness of the virus. Unfortunately, other diseases, like mono, are so easily pased through saliva...hence the "french kissing disease" name.

Ooops since this is new tome, I forgot to add my source. CDCs FACTS on transmission of HIV:

"HIV has been found in saliva and tears in very low quantities from some AIDS patients. It is important to understand that finding a small amount of HIV in a body fluid does not necessarily mean that HIV can be transmitted by that body fluid. HIV has not been recovered from the sweat of HIV-infected persons. Contact with saliva, tears, or sweat has never been shown to result in transmission of HIV."

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Best wishes.

I'm sorry Anyone. I didn't mean you should post the facts everytime, unless you are Mr. Devine of course. I meant to say be ready to back yourself up with some actual sites or other means of reliable information. I guess I got a little carried away with the false information someone else was passing on. Please forgive me. Take care and continue giving excellent advice!!!!

thanks for your replys, i am a bit worried about this and depressed about contracting the herpes. this was totally out of character for me and like i said as soon as the condom was removed i made her stop. it is scary how certain stds can be passed on so easily. i did not know this at that time and i think if i did i would have not been doing that. i feel if others were more educated they would feel the same way. i know i will still be going to see a docter, i am going to wait a bit longer.