About two weeks ago I had protected sex and gave her unprotected oral with a girl who has been with many partners. About 4 days later, I started feeling many of the symptoms consistent with acute hiv.( swollen glands, fatige, diarreah, cough). I have not had a fever or rash but have had most of the above symptoms for the last two weeks, and now my armpit glands feel swollen. The cough has changed from a dry cough to a cough with mucus. I know oral transmisson is low risk, but how scared should I be, I've been feeling the symptoms and my neck and armpit glands are swollen. Also I noticed that the day after the incident, the tip of my tongue was red and had a raw feeling. I have been extremely stressed thinking about this. Any help would be great help.

your overall risk is pretty low.

also, never go by symptoms. they can be due to anything, especially stress.