Hi,
Im a very large woman,always have been large and with it came self-consciousness.Im getting married soon to a sweet man that I love very much.He loves and accepts me for the wonderful qualites that I hold on the inside,but also wants me to be physically fit,and healthy.He keeps fit and works out regularly.Should I worry about this?

Hmmmmmm, is he on your case about losing weight? If so, then yes, this might be a problem which could get worse after your married.

I agree with lady. My husband is a professional firefighter and definitely in good shape(although he has a monstrous sweet tooth). I would like to lose some weight( I had a baby 2 weeks ago,and before that I was tring to lose weight so now, with the weight I was trying to lose couples with the baby weight I really am desparate to take off a few pounds) but he has never said anything about it, I think it would really hurt my feelings if he was on my case about it. In fact he's been on me because he doesnt think I"ve been eating enough. I would think that that could cause stress in a marriage if your soon to be husband is going to be on your case about it. IF he loves you enough to want to be your husband he should love you no matter what size you are

He's said he wants you to be physically fit and healthy, not skinny. I think that because he loves you so much, he's worried for your health as he wants you in his life as much as possible. If he had said "lose some weight woman!" then I would urge you to reconsider whether you want that nuisance in your life. What I think he wants though is for you to exercise a little and eat a little healthier so that you'll have a long good life. He sounds like a keeper!