hey scared I have had similar symptoms. 6 months ago I also had a very low risk encounter with a woman and been sick ever since. You get no help from the doctors once you are HIV neg. after going through many of your symptoms I presently have the blurry vision, dry mouth and mouth and lip sores, and a cold that never goes away. there is obviously another virus out there. Have you had your CD4 count checked yet? It is a measure of your immune system to keep track of.