Okay - does everyone remember me telling you about my friend who got pg after trying for 6 yrs after having a m/c? I was real happy and excited for her b/c she is one of us who really had to struggle to get pg. Well now I am just annoyed! You would think since she went through what I am going through she would be a bit more understanding and realize that I do not want to be called EVERY FUC*'N day for her to tell me all about how wonderful it is to be pg and what the doc had to say and so on. Yeah your pg - NOW SHUT THE HE** UP already. I am always happy when someone is pg, especially on here and love to hear how things are going but I feel like SHE is rubbing it in my face. Maybe I am over reacting but I know that I wouldn't do that to her if the shoe was on the other foot.

Now - on the flipside - we haven't heard from JodyC in forever and I wonder how she and her son (we know it is a boy now http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif ) are doing???? Anyone heard from her?

Just had to vent!

TAZ

OK THAT'S JUST PLAIN INGORANT AND RUDE! I am sooooo serious! OMG! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/hammer.gif You'd think that people who struggled would know to "tone it down" after they finally acheive pg. MY SIL is JUST like that! That's why I am pissed off for you! AAAAAAACKKKKK!!!!!! That just makes me mad http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/mad.gif I know you want to be happy for her, but it sure makes it hard when it's IN YOUR FACE 24-7. Hang in there http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/round.gif

[This message has been edited by MaryAnn1970 (edited 06-12-2003).]

Hiya Amy - that is pretty inconsiderate of her, have you ever thought of politely saying that you really don't need to hear about it every single day? I can understand why you wouldn't want to address that issue though - she might get upset and never talk about it.

well sh**, that sux. You can vent all you want. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif

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Taz, I know that is very hard, it is like they are taking a knife and twisting it in your heart over and over...maybe you could just mention to her that it is a bit hard to hear about it every day. I don't think that would be so rude. Good luck...go have a beer(ssssssssss) that might help! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/biggrin.gif
Amber

Totally can relate!!! My SIL is talking about having a third child, when she knows EXACTLY what I am going through- she is the only one in the family who knows, so I confide in her the most. I know she is excited that she is fertle myrtle- but give it a rest already!! I guess people forget what it is like to have this stuggle. That is so discouraging to hear- I am so sorry. I think you should take advice and find a way to politely tell her to shut up or ignore her calls!!! How insensitive- I swear!!!

Taz,

That sounds very rude and obnoxious. I can't think why someone would do that. Unless she somehow thinks she's "sharing" with you what you so desperately want to have. I dunno, I'm stumped. And pissed off for you.

Let's go have a drinky together.

And no, contrary to all my remarks about drinking, I'm NOT an alcoholic. Quite the opposite, I'm a feather weight who has about 1 drink a month http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif

THanks guys! I love all of ya! I think I will just have to ignore her when she talks about it. I don't want to hurt her feelings b/c I don't honestly think that she is trying to hurt mine - it is just extremely frustrating. She is just a really annoying person naturally anyway so I guess I can't get too mad at her....Thank God for caller ID b/c I think I just won't answer the phone every day and maybe she will get the hint and it willhelp?????WHo knows!

Taz

Dayum Itch she is huh Tazzzz// People like that, ehhhh they jus pisss me offfs! You got the right attitude, cut her off LOL, who needs people like that LOL..Sorry, check this out...Had great friend of mine my whole life, partyed and hung together, Were both going threw IUI's and Im im like my 3 rd 1 6 years ago and her first time, she got preg with twins and ya know what happened? She bleew me off! Well, take your 2 F'in kids and all F yourself! She was very very rude! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/tongue.gif

That is really rude of her. You would think she would be a little more kind. Why don't you tell her " You know how hard I have been trying to get pg and although I am very happy for you it really hurts me to hear about it all the time. " I would say something, if she is really your friend she will understand how you feel.

boundi - that is a good thing to say to her and I think I will. That or I can keep ignoring her http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wink.gif

Here is another thing that pi**es me off, she goes to the same doc and she will try and talk to them about me. HELLO heard of HIPPA people? I don't think they tell her anything but she tells me that she talks to them about me.....

I consoled myself wiht chocolate chips last night and I must admit I feel better http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif

TAZ

Taz,

I have one word for people like her

"BEOTCH'