porkami
12-12-2008, 02:29 PM
Four months ago i was dignose with herpes! My doctor gave me those huge pills for a week and it worked. He told me to have sex with condoms for at least 2 months. I have a stable relationship and my boyfriend knows about this. My quetion is, Now when we have sex when we done, his come burns and i hate it. Even sometimes after sex it looks like sores are coming back but they gone. Is it coming back or i never actually cure
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lostandbroken
12-12-2008, 11:35 PM
Herpes is never cured. It is impossible to say when the outbreaks are active, so the best thing to do is use condoms all the time.
porkami
12-14-2008, 02:19 AM
I know it doesnt! Trust me i kno! But i dnt wanna use condoms all my life! I wanna have a regular life 2! So should i go to the doctor again or get the pills and take them again! Tell me! Pliz
Oceanus
12-14-2008, 03:39 PM
If you are using condoms how can your boyfriend's cum be burning you? If this is your primary (meaning first) outbreak, then it could last weeks if not months. Just as one OB seems to be clearing up, another one begins. Also, many women report sex irritates them and brings on an OB. The best thing for you to do for awhile might be to take suppressive antivirals for awhile, especially since you will likely be highly contagious for a while and don't want to give this to your boyfriend (assuming he doesn't already have it).
Courty
12-15-2008, 07:12 PM
When I had my first outbreak it was really painful for a cupple of months its been a year and I find they are elss painful and less frequent. Try to avoid thngs like stress because that will definetly not help your herpes. Also if you find you can not get rid of your break out try going on supressive therapy which is taking a pill daily. It can be an option to discuss with your doctor.
porkami
12-16-2008, 12:40 AM
Thanks Courty! That will help me out alot!!! Yea my doctor told me that the st one is the painfull one! I hate this!!! Seriously! And what i hate the most is that idk who or when i got it from! And Im still young!
i've been really really stress out since i find out! At the beggining i felt like everything was over 4 me!
Is there a way to like talk private in this thing!? i just became a member so i can ask this things!!
Let me know! and thankz again!
i've been really really stress out since i find out! At the beggining i felt like everything was over 4 me!
Is there a way to like talk private in this thing!? i just became a member so i can ask this things!!
Let me know! and thankz again!
Courty
12-16-2008, 11:59 AM
I am not sure if you can talk private , but hang in there I am onyl 20. I just turned 19 when I got it. The thing with me was this was someone I knew for a long time and trusted and he turned out to just be a jerk in the end, but if one good thing came out of this I learned to be a lot mroe careful and fpund someone who accepted it no problem actually I never had anyone reject me because I have herpes. Just hang int here I know it sucks, but once you get the facts and get it under control you realize its not a big deal. There are a lto wors ethngs out there and were always here for support! :)
porkami
12-19-2008, 03:39 PM
I kno! Its true! Actually i kinda feel that i have to accepts this guys bullshyt bkuz of it, after all i think he passed it to me. But i feel that even thou i really want to be with him, idk wat could happen n i feel like imma get reject it! That they gonna look at me different uk? Im so stressed!
I had just turned 18 when i found out! Ik there's worst, but right now this is the worst to me! :(
I had just turned 18 when i found out! Ik there's worst, but right now this is the worst to me! :(
Courty
12-19-2008, 04:59 PM
At least your not alone trust me! I stayed with this jerk for a year because I was affraid of rejection and it wa snto worth it! I have never been rejected had three boyfriedns after him. It kindda weened out the bad ones. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't accept you for you? Your too good to settle for anything less! Just because you have herpes does nto make you anything less . I know rejection can be scary, but more people have it then you think. Keep your head up! :) Everyone gets rejected soemtimes too. Like I said you should neevr have to settle for anything less then everything!
porkami
12-28-2008, 05:33 PM
Well thats true! Thank you 4 everything! Take Care