how do you use the warm coconut oil on your hair? where do you get the oil and how do you warm it up? also, what time of day do you put it on your hair? i'm really needing my hair to grow as it has not grown since my hair dresser whacked it all up and totally thinned it out with the razor. i have see-through hair for a YEAR now. what else can i do to help it grow thicker and longer? help! thx ;)