I've slept with one person with out protection who told me he'd never slept with anyone else without protection. Then after several declines of sex from me he asked what was wrong where I explain whats wrong. (Itchyness, small cuts randomly appearing and due to me scratching because nothing helps, numbness so I sometimes start peeing without realising, pain whilst peeing, sometimes blood in the urine not from the cuts, swelling of the lips and around my clitoris.., funny smelling and coloured discharge and lots of it, flu like symtoms like sore throat, runny nose, cough, shortness of breath. AlsoI don't know it its related but i've had trouble with my eyes example they kinda glue shut all the time and weep) Thats alot of things wrong and making me uncomfortable. I don't have a doctor yet because i've just moved to this area and I don't want to talk to any of my friends. Im not usually ill or moany and I don't know if this could be an STD or just a general infection or just me being a bit ill and panicing because of the news from my boyfriend hes slept with someone else without protection. Ask me questions if you want to make you understand me better. Ive looked all over the net and all that seems to come up are the really bad illnesses but I don't feel *that* bad. Thanks for your time