ok me and my girl friend found bump on the upper left side of her vagina that is flesh colored, painless, and not that big... it just showed up out of no where.. i know this cuz the days prior to that it wasnt there ...we were having alot of sex and alot of

I would recommend that you both go to the doctors and ask for a IgG type specific herpes blood test so that you know both of your status. :)