3 weeks ago I asked my girlfriend(high funct. ASP. Female 24) to marry me and she gladly accepted because we are made for each other in every way possible! She speaks to me with thoughts and words as I do her and its a classic true love story! In 6 months we never had a fight or problem & we talk/get together each day. I asked her what date she wanted to get married, she wanted four months and i was cool with that. Three days ago she calls me over and just opens up with "I'm having concerns/red flags about you that are over whelming and not comfortable moving forward". I never claimed to be perfect (who is) but its as if when she noticed I was not perfect then marrying me was not a risk she was going to take.

Is it possible that under the stress of a quick wedding she just had a meltdown (too much too fast, overwhelming)? In 24 hours i am meeting with her to see where her heart is at and how do we move forward. The day she pproached me I quickly could see her stress so i said lets take off the wedding date so as to not feel pressure, we can put all that on hold and work thru this. My soul tells me that her Mild Aspergers is telling her to end this reationship now and fast above all else. I want to say "where is my future wife and who are you in her body" because she is in a place that I never knew existed or how to get her back to me? It was pure love and joy and then like a switch over night I am judged unworthy of marrying her or even staying in any kind of relationship what so ever? Is this a self protection that anyone has heard of? To just run away for no good reason or to attempt to make up some small reason and blow it way out of proportion? We went from a perfect relationship to over night , how do we move forward if we even do?? Help Please, this person is the best thing to come into my world and I for her but I don't know how to recover from here, I don't know if she can/will