shrimp88
05-22-2009, 02:24 PM
i am hsv2 positive. have been for 8 months now. i was involved w this guy and i told him right away. he kept tryin to mess w me because he didnt care but i did. the extent of our sexual contact was kissing and he fingered me for like 2 minutes i never touched his penis and his penis never touched my vagina. my last and only outbreak was 8 months ago when i first found out. i also have hpv genital warts and have been currently treating them. but he was also aware of this. he came to me saying that he had red itchy bumps ON his penis. is it possible that he caught something from me?
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angeleyesinnj81
05-22-2009, 06:27 PM
i am hsv2 positive. have been for 8 months now. i was involved w this guy and i told him right away. he kept tryin to mess w me because he didnt care but i did. the extent of our sexual contact was kissing and he fingered me for like 2 minutes i never touched his penis and his penis never touched my vagina. my last and only outbreak was 8 months ago when i first found out. i also have hpv genital warts and have been currently treating them. but he was also aware of this. he came to me saying that he had red itchy bumps ON his penis. is it possible that he caught something from me?
Hi.. no if your privates never came in contact with his.. then how would you pass it if it is from skin to skin contact. I think he may just want someone to blame if he has something. :)
Hi.. no if your privates never came in contact with his.. then how would you pass it if it is from skin to skin contact. I think he may just want someone to blame if he has something. :)
shrimp88
05-22-2009, 06:44 PM
Hi.. no if your privates never came in contact with his.. then how would you pass it if it is from skin to skin contact. I think he may just want someone to blame if he has something. :)
hes not blaming me but he brought it up to me. were supposed to talk tonight. hes not mad at me but what if he does have herpes? i feel guilty even tho i told him from day 1 that i have 2 stds...and not to mention i refused having sex w him many times because of what i have. i dont want anybody to catch hsv2 or hsv.
hes not blaming me but he brought it up to me. were supposed to talk tonight. hes not mad at me but what if he does have herpes? i feel guilty even tho i told him from day 1 that i have 2 stds...and not to mention i refused having sex w him many times because of what i have. i dont want anybody to catch hsv2 or hsv.
John4045
05-22-2009, 07:53 PM
hes not blaming me but he brought it up to me. were supposed to talk tonight. hes not mad at me but what if he does have herpes? i feel guilty even tho i told him from day 1 that i have 2 stds...and not to mention i refused having sex w him many times because of what i have. i dont want anybody to catch hsv2 or hsv.
maybe he masturbated right after fingering you. you shouldn't feel bad he knew what was up. and they're just skin diseases he'll get over it
maybe he masturbated right after fingering you. you shouldn't feel bad he knew what was up. and they're just skin diseases he'll get over it
shrimp88
05-22-2009, 08:13 PM
maybe he masturbated right after fingering you. you shouldn't feel bad he knew what was up. and they're just skin diseases he'll get over it
i know but i dont want anybody to have to go through what ive gone through and hes younger than me and id feel soooo bad. also i work with him and i dont want him resenting me or anybody at work to think that i intentionally did this to him if he does have herpes.
i know but i dont want anybody to have to go through what ive gone through and hes younger than me and id feel soooo bad. also i work with him and i dont want him resenting me or anybody at work to think that i intentionally did this to him if he does have herpes.
angeleyesinnj81
05-22-2009, 11:42 PM
i know but i dont want anybody to have to go through what ive gone through and hes younger than me and id feel soooo bad. also i work with him and i dont want him resenting me or anybody at work to think that i intentionally did this to him if he does have herpes.
You can't be letting this virus get in the way of you being happy and free. If the person that you are sleeping with is aware and know there is a chance of catching it then you need not to worry. The person is making their own informed decision and think that you are worth the risk. There are many people that would love to be in your shoes right now for that simple fact alone. :):)
You can't be letting this virus get in the way of you being happy and free. If the person that you are sleeping with is aware and know there is a chance of catching it then you need not to worry. The person is making their own informed decision and think that you are worth the risk. There are many people that would love to be in your shoes right now for that simple fact alone. :):)
shrimp88
05-23-2009, 01:34 AM
You can't be letting this virus get in the way of you being happy and free. If the person that you are sleeping with is aware and know there is a chance of catching it then you need not to worry. The person is making their own informed decision and think that you are worth the risk. There are many people that would love to be in your shoes right now for that simple fact alone. :):)
i know alot of people would love to be in my shoes but the grass isnt always greener on the other side ya know!! i am a very attractive grl and guys just look at me as a piece of ***. i hate it especially being sexually abused when i was younger. it sucks like relationships have a whole new meaning when something like that happens. maybe they are not just looking for a piece of *** and its just my mind set from what had happened...i dunno but i just want a guy to like me for me not just to like me for my body
i know alot of people would love to be in my shoes but the grass isnt always greener on the other side ya know!! i am a very attractive grl and guys just look at me as a piece of ***. i hate it especially being sexually abused when i was younger. it sucks like relationships have a whole new meaning when something like that happens. maybe they are not just looking for a piece of *** and its just my mind set from what had happened...i dunno but i just want a guy to like me for me not just to like me for my body
angeleyesinnj81
05-23-2009, 02:41 AM
i know alot of people would love to be in my shoes but the grass isnt always greener on the other side ya know!! i am a very attractive grl and guys just look at me as a piece of ***. i hate it especially being sexually abused when i was younger. it sucks like relationships have a whole new meaning when something like that happens. maybe they are not just looking for a piece of *** and its just my mind set from what had happened...i dunno but i just want a guy to like me for me not just to like me for my body
I hear you.. but if this guy is willing to be with you and risk getting this.. he is thinking you are worth it and more then just a piece of booty (hopefully that is what I am thinking)...
Normally having Herpes will help weed out the men that just want a one night stand and what not.. so please try to be happy. I can't relate to you about the abusive part when younger.. but I was raped 2 times..and during one of the times is when I had contracted this virus. Bouncing back from that was hard in itself.. just being able to trust a man.. now having this on top of it was hard..but my exhusband accepted me herpes and all..we were together for 4 yrs.
Things will be ok.. just try not to worry too much. :)
I hear you.. but if this guy is willing to be with you and risk getting this.. he is thinking you are worth it and more then just a piece of booty (hopefully that is what I am thinking)...
Normally having Herpes will help weed out the men that just want a one night stand and what not.. so please try to be happy. I can't relate to you about the abusive part when younger.. but I was raped 2 times..and during one of the times is when I had contracted this virus. Bouncing back from that was hard in itself.. just being able to trust a man.. now having this on top of it was hard..but my exhusband accepted me herpes and all..we were together for 4 yrs.
Things will be ok.. just try not to worry too much. :)
shrimp88
05-24-2009, 04:17 AM
I hear you.. but if this guy is willing to be with you and risk getting this.. he is thinking you are worth it and more then just a piece of booty (hopefully that is what I am thinking)...
Normally having Herpes will help weed out the men that just want a one night stand and what not.. so please try to be happy. I can't relate to you about the abusive part when younger.. but I was raped 2 times..and during one of the times is when I had contracted this virus. Bouncing back from that was hard in itself.. just being able to trust a man.. now having this on top of it was hard..but my exhusband accepted me herpes and all..we were together for 4 yrs.
Things will be ok.. just try not to worry too much. :)
i am sorry to hear that that must have been hard contracting the virus in that way. =-( i do use it to my advantage...kinda as an ***hole filter lol id just feel terrible giving anybody any of this i just dont want other people to go through the emotional stress of finding out...at least if i could have prevented it ya know =-/
Normally having Herpes will help weed out the men that just want a one night stand and what not.. so please try to be happy. I can't relate to you about the abusive part when younger.. but I was raped 2 times..and during one of the times is when I had contracted this virus. Bouncing back from that was hard in itself.. just being able to trust a man.. now having this on top of it was hard..but my exhusband accepted me herpes and all..we were together for 4 yrs.
Things will be ok.. just try not to worry too much. :)
i am sorry to hear that that must have been hard contracting the virus in that way. =-( i do use it to my advantage...kinda as an ***hole filter lol id just feel terrible giving anybody any of this i just dont want other people to go through the emotional stress of finding out...at least if i could have prevented it ya know =-/
John4045
05-24-2009, 08:24 AM
i know but i dont want anybody to have to go through what ive gone through and hes younger than me and id feel soooo bad. also i work with him and i dont want him resenting me or anybody at work to think that i intentionally did this to him if he does have herpes.
oh wow! i'd do what ever you have to to avoid relationships at work. that's the most solid advice i ever got. i didn't listen and it blew up in my face! (nothing std related about this advice)
oh wow! i'd do what ever you have to to avoid relationships at work. that's the most solid advice i ever got. i didn't listen and it blew up in my face! (nothing std related about this advice)