I just found out i had herpies today, i know who i got it from and he has been having it for years and didnt tell me. i am soooo angry, sad, depressed. my life is over. how can i make him pay for doing this to me and still doing to other women?

How do you know he has it...or has had it for years? Your life is not over.. things get better and its not as horrible as you think. There are people out there that will accept you herpes and all.. you have to stay positive and not stress.. as stress will help bring on an outbreak. :)