Hi,
Just wondering how many guys here have had sex with there foreskin still covering the head? I have a tight foreskin, and i`ve been stretching it for about 3 - 5 days and i haven`t really seen any improvement. when should i see some improvement. Is it still ok to have sex with the foreskin covering the head?

cheers

If you never have washed under there it must be real dirty. Stretch it, clean it, & then try sex.

Parents should teach the boys to stretch the skin back every time they bathe & wash under it, then this would not be a problem.

Good luck,

G

3-5 days??? buddy you need to work on this for a lot longer than that. 1 month minimum depending on how tight you are.

However, you can have sex without retracting, but you risk having the skin pushed back forcefully and thereby tearing the frenulum, which is not serious but can be rather unpleasant.

Of course you can have sex with your foreskin forward, I do it all the time as well as wank the same way. For me it's much more comfortable. In penetrative sex, it allows me to last longer and satisfy my partner.

I hope you're planning on using a condom. Roll the condom on with yourforeskin over the glans. When using a condom, all guys have to lubricate the condom so it's comfortable for your partner. KY Jelly is commonly available or other products like Astroglide work equally well.

If you're going bareback, then you lubricate your penis with the foreskin in place over the knob the same way. This insures that your foreskin doesn't push back and makes sure your partner is comfortable.

As for the the people screaming hygiene, ignore that rubbish. What smegma may or may not be present is a natural secretion and your partner will have her share under the foreskin of her clitoris. No one ever died of smegma.

Some people have no concept of personal hygiene. Natural or not, smegma can really stink. Not cleaning can set you up infections, and then when you can't even pull the skin back to get to the infection, you'll be sorry. Ignore the rubbish by Christiaan.

Originally posted by Christiaan:
As for the the people screaming hygiene, ignore that rubbish. What smegma may or may not be present is a natural secretion and your partner will have her share under the foreskin of her clitoris. No one ever died of smegma.

Just because its a natural secretion doesn't mean you can just ignore it and not expect hygiene problems. There are a lot of 'natural secretions' that can negatively affect hygiene. Its not a matter of survival, but hygiene is important when interacting with other people.

There aren't too many women out there who find a smegma filled penis appealing (there are a few who have a fetish for the stuff, but they're rare). Most find it revolting, and many would refuse to have sex with someone with a penis loaded with smegma. Like if someone never cleaned their ears, and had so much wax build up that it was oozing out of their ears, most people would find that offensive, disgusting, and not want to associate with that person. Ear wax is a natural secretion too, and nobody every died from ear wax. Smegma build up isn't much different in concept.

A slight build up of fresh smegma (no more than a week old) is fine, and can be benefitial in providing lubrication for the foreskin. But if it is allowed to build up and get old, it develops an odor gets sticky, and can be uncomfortable when it really builds up. So its not something you can just ignore.

I agree with sdp2 and focus in their criticisms of Christiaan's post.

The foreskin should be pulled back before a condom is rolled on. If the foreskin is too tight for this, then stretching exercises have to be used until the foreskin is loose enough.

Hi,
I can pull back my foreskin when soft/semi-hard. I wash the segma off nightly. What my question was really about was, is it ok to have sex with the foreskin forward?( using a condom ). Just until i have finished stretching my foreskin.

Slasher8u, yes it's ok to have sex with a condom over a penis with an unretracted foreskin. I guess. I did it once and thought it was an almost total failure -- very little feeling for either partner.

As you can see by the responses, you have brought up a number of issues. Politics is fun, eh?

Sex is better. Especially with a retracted foreskin. Keep up the stretching exercises. You'll feel better.

Fles,
Thanx for your help. I`ll just keep doing the stretching exercises, and then eventually it should all be good.

cheers