I have a very serious, very embarassing problem. I fart during sex, and not just a little squeeker, I mean fart, loud and smelly. I have tried everything, beano, gasx, antacids, pepto, any number of otc products to keep me from getting into this emabarassing situation.

I havent always had this problem, but I would say in the last year, it has become problematic. I have had 5 different partners with in this year, and only one was completely turned off and never talked to me again because of it. The others were more understanding, one laughed her head off and the others pretended nothing happened. I mean come on, it is like an atomic bomb going off, how can you pretend to ignore that?

Any suggestions to help me. Do you think that this has developed into more of a psycological problem than a physical problem? Sometimes I think that may be the case. Anyway, any advice or info would be appreciated.

Do any other guys have this problem? Or am I the only one?

thanks guys

You should talk to your doctor or someone knowledgeable about dietary issues. You need to find out what is causing the gas. I think I would be turned off too if someone was farting up a storm during sex.

sdp2, I like your posts. You always hit the nail on the head.

I try my best where I can.

Thanks for the reply.

I have tried everything as far as dietary isues are concerned. I know that certain foods will cause more gas than others, and I tend to steer clear of them.

What is so bad about the situation is that if the flatulance was controllable I would have no problem. But it comes on unexpextedly and with such force.

BTW, I am not a person who is always farting, I very rarely do so, and especially not in any type of social setting.

I do have to admit, that sometimes I really let a big ripper fly and it is so darn funny, I laugh so hard some times I cry. One girl I was with laughed so hard we had to stop what we were doing until the giggles went away. I bet we laughed for 20 minutes straight!

Like I said, I haven't always been this way, just in the last year or so. My eating habits havent changed much at all in that time, and anti-flatualants like beeno don't work, even when I take more than recomended.

Any further advice is welcomed.

I was just going to ask if you fart regularly or just during sex, and you answered my question that it only happens during sex. That is weird!
Well at least you both got a good laugh. http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/smile.gif
Maybe it's the position you're in?
Are you nervous at all during sex? Nerves can upset your stomach and that in turn could cause gas.
I really have no idea.

I dont think I am nervous, never really thought about it, I am usually always comfortable with whomever I am with.

About the position thing, I do like being on top and doggy, and that is usualy when the "farting" takes place. It has never happened when I am on the bottom or on the side, hmmm, I may have to do a little more experimenting.

Thanks for the idea about positions!

take care

Hmmm, I know this might sound awkward... But we have to check all possibilities. Because you stated that it only happens when you are doing doggie style, could it be that the sounds are coming from the womans vagina instead? Sometimes air gets trapped inside their interior due to the thrusting's (doggie style happens most) and when it comes out, it sounds like a big fart! But it is not lol, and women don't usually feel it themselves (this happened to a gf of mine and she thought it was me, she also started laughing. You should see her face when I told her it came from her!).
I guess this was a stupid point because you yourself must feel the farts coming from your body.. But it was worth a check.

Yeah, I know what you are talking about in reference to the giant queefs that occur during doggy, but beleive me, I know that I am cracking them out. It also happens when in the missionary position. But thanks for trying to help.

Are you sure you're not nervous? 5 women in a year sounds like a lot.
Anyway, I hope you do find an answer, but this is kind of funny.
Sorry to be laughing savysac, but there are so many serious topics on here and then to see the subject "Flatulance during lovemaking". LOL

Just couldn't resist "pooting" my 2 cents in here...

Yeah. When I was considerably younger, I'd actually get anxious anticipating the problem. There you are - looking forward to some nice RELAXING lovemaking and BAM - just dare to relax ye olde sphincter and WHAM... They say it's the straightest thing in the universe, because it always hits you straight in the nose... Then again, it's also the crookedest, because no matter which direction you let fly - it still hits you straight in the nose !!!

The problem isn't as pronounced, these days. When I was dating, I'm certain that the anticipatory DINNER, repleat with SALAD, had some influence.

Other learned "things" - if you shave that area (most partularly the inner butt area), then the sound skyrockets... Nature must have intended pubic hair THERE to double as a MUFFLER (thus, allowing those of us with said problem to still have SOME chance to successfully BREED).

Good luck !!! http://www.healthboards.com/ubb/wave.gif

there probably 2 little temporary solutions u can do in the mean time

(sorry if these were already mentioned, but its 2:20 am here and im verry tired..so ic ouldnt real all posts)


1. when you're haveing sex, let your patner be the agressive one, while you be submissive.
this way, you can be positioned on your back, with less movement then on top, so it wont slip out as much, you can also clench your muscles easier this way, and since your not distracted by the thrusts that YOU have to do, you can concentrate(well...nto concentrate, sex has priority here:P) on your little peeping friends..

2. try turning on some music, maybe a little barry white. (or if you wanna go more practicle and REALLY hide it, stick some tuba orchastra in the cd player :P.. j/k)

your be fine bud..
also,, make sure u drink your 6-8 water a day, that may help