sosickofthis
08-25-2009, 12:08 PM
will my ex husband be notified that i'm trying to receive my ssd or will any of my past employers be notified? sometimes i get my ex husbands mail (we have diff boxes but the same post office) and i can only imagine who gets some of mine. i would die if the wrong person got my mail and read about what all is wrong with me.
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goldyfm
08-25-2009, 02:03 PM
I believe that the SSA may contact personnel on your employers as they may have to verify some of the info regarding time worked and salary. I know they went over those things with me a while after I initially filed. But as always, personnel files are confidential and any disclosure other than a legitimate request would be a violation of privacy laws. I would speak to the Postmaster at your post office and voice your concerns about your mail. They are human and so may make mistakes, but if you alert them to the fact that your mail may get mixed up with another in their facility, they may watch a little closer. Just my view.
As for them notifying your ex-husband, I would see no need to involve him unless you were applying on his work record and not your own. And even then, I don't know if they would or not.
As for them notifying your ex-husband, I would see no need to involve him unless you were applying on his work record and not your own. And even then, I don't know if they would or not.
Executor
08-25-2009, 11:08 PM
will my ex husband be notified that i'm trying to receive my ssd or will any of my past employers be notified?
No, your ex-husband will not be notified.
The only way ex's are involved is if children are collecting benefits on behalf of the parent's disability...And the children are paid via the custodian parent, or who the children live 51% or more with. For example, if person A is awarded disability, but the children live with person B, person B will know person A has been awarded disability because the children are paid via person B. Person B will not, however, know the details of the disability...Only that person A has been deemed disabled.
However, if person A is awarded disability and the children live with person A, then person B will never know person A has been awarded disability.
Regards,
Ex
No, your ex-husband will not be notified.
The only way ex's are involved is if children are collecting benefits on behalf of the parent's disability...And the children are paid via the custodian parent, or who the children live 51% or more with. For example, if person A is awarded disability, but the children live with person B, person B will know person A has been awarded disability because the children are paid via person B. Person B will not, however, know the details of the disability...Only that person A has been deemed disabled.
However, if person A is awarded disability and the children live with person A, then person B will never know person A has been awarded disability.
Regards,
Ex
BeHappy2
08-26-2009, 12:01 AM
Thought i'd pass this on for any helpful information needed
I have a brother-in-law who was notified from ss that his xwife had applied for SSD and approved and they had no children involved.
She is drawing SSD off of his SS benefits.
He was notified of all this.
Be Well
BeHappy2
I have a brother-in-law who was notified from ss that his xwife had applied for SSD and approved and they had no children involved.
She is drawing SSD off of his SS benefits.
He was notified of all this.
Be Well
BeHappy2
sosickofthis
08-26-2009, 05:19 PM
was he still working or already drawing ss of some kind already? i hope so bad he doesn't find out.
Executor
08-26-2009, 11:18 PM
He was notified because she filed and is drawing of his account. Not so, if one applies and draws off their own.
Ex
Ex
sosickofthis
08-27-2009, 03:43 AM
He was notified because she filed and is drawing of his account. Not so, if one applies and draws off their own.
Exi don't understand,how can you draw off of someone elses instead of yours, unless they were drawing disability also maybe,
Exi don't understand,how can you draw off of someone elses instead of yours, unless they were drawing disability also maybe,
BeHappy2
08-27-2009, 06:53 AM
was he still working or already drawing ss of some kind already? i hope so bad he doesn't find out.
I'm assuming you are responding to what i replied.
Oh yes my B-I-L a hard working man at the time she began drawing SSD off of his SS record. This has been years back and she still receives SSD.
I believe SS has since changed their rules on this. A divorced person has to file off their own record and not a ex spouse at such a young age.
This is probably how SS also got in such a financial mess. Years back ex-spouses could do this, but as i said he was notified of her doing so . Then again , this ss rule i believe has changed.
Rules do often change with SS, this is why we post here too. Trying to keep up with social security rules.
Be WEll
BeHappy2
I'm assuming you are responding to what i replied.
Oh yes my B-I-L a hard working man at the time she began drawing SSD off of his SS record. This has been years back and she still receives SSD.
I believe SS has since changed their rules on this. A divorced person has to file off their own record and not a ex spouse at such a young age.
This is probably how SS also got in such a financial mess. Years back ex-spouses could do this, but as i said he was notified of her doing so . Then again , this ss rule i believe has changed.
Rules do often change with SS, this is why we post here too. Trying to keep up with social security rules.
Be WEll
BeHappy2
goldyfm
08-27-2009, 01:07 PM
I know that an ex of mine who had given up his parental rights to a child who had been adopted by my spouse, tried to claim the child on a disability claim and I was notified by SSA. Needless to say, he was not eligible to draw for the child, but I was made aware of his attempt to do so. Whether this is a normal process, I do not know.