Gilligan24
08-19-2002, 06:14 PM
Just about 24/7 i hang out with my 4 best friends (3 guys and a girl). The problem? One of the boys was in love with her(he is now off at college), another (the one who used to be my closest friend, Jake) is secretly crushing on her (and has only told me), and the third dated her(and they might get back together). She is the sweetest thing alive and im not mad at her but the problem is that all the boys, although they are my friends, would rather be with her and Jake will go an entire evening just looking at her (even if i am talking to him). I just cant take it anymore and it makes me so upset. I love them all and i know they all love me. What do i do??!!! My biggest problem is jake because he started telling all his problems to her instead of me and our relationship is dying but he doesnt know it. please help me. i hate teen angst :)
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star508
08-19-2002, 06:28 PM
hey that situation just sucks :( but here's what you can do: take Jake aside and tell him how you feel...tell him you feel left out and that it seems like he's picking the other girl over you, he might not even realize he's doing it...you can do the same with the other two guys, just tell them you're feeling left out..or if you and jake come to a good understanding, you can ask him if he could talk to the other two and help you out :)