Al Riv
08-16-2002, 05:09 PM
I am and attractive middle age married women and wile on my bosses computer I accidently found a naked pic of my boss. I have notice that he is hooked on sex sites on the Internet and seem to go to the washroom quite a bit for what I think is some one handed loving . This scares me because. I work with him all day and scared that on day he wont be able to control himself and will make a move on me. Do you think he did on purpose for me to find his pic What should I do. Please addvise
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star508
08-16-2002, 06:16 PM
Don't take this as me jumping down your throat....but why did you "suddenly find" a pic on your boss' computer? If you were doing some work on it, you shouldn't have been looking around anyway. Then again, pictures like that shouldn't be on anyone's work computer...
gwle
08-16-2002, 07:58 PM
Yea! Thats none of your business! What he does personally is his own business. Has he made any advancements on you? Has he made any obscene or inapropriate gestures or comments towards you? If the answer to these questions is a no, then why should you care? Are you the moral patrol? How would you like it if he listened in on your phone conversations with your hubby and told you they were a bit racy or raunchy?
mlgable
08-17-2002, 02:44 AM
I agree that unless he had the pic "in plain sight" so to speak you should not have seen it. When you are someone elses computer you should not be looking at anything other than what you went to that computer to view and if you do see something then keep it to yourself unless it involves something criminal of course. Unless he gives you reason to think he might hit on you such as being suggestive or frequently but accidently brushing against your body you have nothing to worry about.
AshleeD
08-17-2002, 03:30 AM
Whoa there! Chill everybody...she didn't ask to get a dose of reality mixed in with a little bit of rudeness..........
Al Riv, as tempting as it may be to check out things on other people's computers when we are on them, it is wrong...and you shouldn't have done it...but if you accidentally clicked on something which brought it up then it truly wasn't done on purpose, and therefore you should forget about it. Just because he has a naked picture of him on his work computer, which yes, shouldn't be there, and may masturbate a lot (which btw you don't know for sure if that's why he constantly goes to the restroom...maybe he's got a bad bladder) doesn't mean he will make advances at you. Just because you're attractive and he's got a naked pic of him on his computer doesn't mean he's going to try anything on you. So I say you've got nothing to worry about unless he starts saying things or doing things that make you uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, hun, and sorry you sort of got ambushed. Although what you all said is true, I think next time you should approach it a little nicer...it never makes anyone feel good when they get told off or yelled at, even if it's online. Maybe she's just a worrier...we never know...I might feel a little weird if I found a naked picture of my boss on his computer, too...
Lots of Love!
Ashlee
Al Riv, as tempting as it may be to check out things on other people's computers when we are on them, it is wrong...and you shouldn't have done it...but if you accidentally clicked on something which brought it up then it truly wasn't done on purpose, and therefore you should forget about it. Just because he has a naked picture of him on his work computer, which yes, shouldn't be there, and may masturbate a lot (which btw you don't know for sure if that's why he constantly goes to the restroom...maybe he's got a bad bladder) doesn't mean he will make advances at you. Just because you're attractive and he's got a naked pic of him on his computer doesn't mean he's going to try anything on you. So I say you've got nothing to worry about unless he starts saying things or doing things that make you uncomfortable.
Hope this helps, hun, and sorry you sort of got ambushed. Although what you all said is true, I think next time you should approach it a little nicer...it never makes anyone feel good when they get told off or yelled at, even if it's online. Maybe she's just a worrier...we never know...I might feel a little weird if I found a naked picture of my boss on his computer, too...
Lots of Love!
Ashlee
MelNor
08-17-2002, 03:44 AM
I think if it bothers you enough to be posting about it then you might want to be on guard, especially if he has directed anything inappropriate towards you. I have to admit, his sexual actions (if he is doing these things for sure) is a little odd to be doing at the office. If he was home...I guess another story!
Do YOU think he put the pic in a spot where u would see it? Is this a computer you also often use and he knows it? There is a possiblity that he was sending the pic to someone, then forgot to delete it to avoid anyone else seeing it. But there are a lot of sicko's out there and who knows maybe he is one of them or maybe it was an honest mistake.
Go with your gut feeling, you know him...we don't.
Take care!
Do YOU think he put the pic in a spot where u would see it? Is this a computer you also often use and he knows it? There is a possiblity that he was sending the pic to someone, then forgot to delete it to avoid anyone else seeing it. But there are a lot of sicko's out there and who knows maybe he is one of them or maybe it was an honest mistake.
Go with your gut feeling, you know him...we don't.
Take care!
paramedik1
08-17-2002, 04:12 AM
I dont blame you Al Riv, finding a naked picture of my boss would definitely creep me out, unless he looks really really good...I think I would have to post under "Mental health" not sexual health after seeing that!!
nicola76
08-17-2002, 05:33 AM
Not to sound mean but I don't see how you could have found a naked pic of your boss and "noticed" that he's hooked on internet sex sites unless you were snooping. Unless he makes any unwanted and inappropiate advances towards you, its really none of your business what he does in his private life. In fact, he'd probably be completely embarrassed if he knew you had found this out!
Take care!
Nic
Take care!
Nic