MamaCass
09-30-2002, 04:22 PM
Hello All,
I need help. I have read the books and tried everything they have said but, I just cant seem to have an orgasm during sex. Is something wrong with me? Please help bye.
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MamaCass
I need help. I have read the books and tried everything they have said but, I just cant seem to have an orgasm during sex. Is something wrong with me? Please help bye.
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MamaCass
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AshLin
09-30-2002, 04:24 PM
We need to know how old you are, and what you already have tried. I didn't orgasm till I was about 18, my body just wasn't developed enough I think. I also really had to relax, I would stress out to much to have an orgasm that I wouldn't be able to.
Are you trying to orgasm through intercourse or masturbation?
Are you trying to orgasm through intercourse or masturbation?
MamaCass
09-30-2002, 04:33 PM
Hello,
Im 20 and Ive tried to relax and everthing in the books. Positions, frame of mind...and nothing seems to work thanks for the reply.
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MamaCass
Im 20 and Ive tried to relax and everthing in the books. Positions, frame of mind...and nothing seems to work thanks for the reply.
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MamaCass
Blastoff9600
09-30-2002, 06:52 PM
I was 21 before I orgasmed during sex,no problems during oral or masturabtion. It was with my fourth partner at that and we had been sexually active for a year and half before it happened for me. Hubby and I had been trying for that entire time. I was to the point I just said screw it and enjoyed the orgasms I could get other ways. And then one night out of the blue it happened. Shocked us both because hubby couldnt figure out why I was crying. Come to find out that when I have orgasm with intercourse,vaginal or g-spot that I cry.
You need to realize not all women are able to orgasm during intercourse and there maybe a chance you are one of those.
So relax and enjoy being with your partner. Enjoy orgasm from other forms. Give your body some more time to mature and see what happens.
You need to realize not all women are able to orgasm during intercourse and there maybe a chance you are one of those.
So relax and enjoy being with your partner. Enjoy orgasm from other forms. Give your body some more time to mature and see what happens.
MamaCass
10-01-2002, 01:23 PM
Hello,
Im trying to acheive orgasm through intercourse. I can have one from clitoral stimulation, not intercourse.
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MamaCass
Im trying to acheive orgasm through intercourse. I can have one from clitoral stimulation, not intercourse.
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MamaCass
Blastoff9600
10-01-2002, 03:23 PM
How about just giving up on it for a while(and when I say a while I mean more than a month). Relax and just enjoy what you can achieve. I know that sounds harsh and I am not meaning it to but it is your best bet right now. Like it has been said by myself and on other replies to you several posts on this there are women who never have orgasms from intercourse. It happens and you just might be one of them. And like I said I was 21 before it happened for me. I had read many,many books and tried every trick I could find. It was when I had given up and was just enjoying being with my hubby that it happened.
*OneStepCloser*
10-01-2002, 07:39 PM
Don't stress on it so much. A lot of women, me included, can not have an orgasm just through intercourse. I've only done it once when I was 17 and since I haven't done it again. I have to have some kind of clitoral stimulation during sex. Just be patient and relaxed and maybe it will happen.
Larissa
Larissa
MamaCass
10-02-2002, 01:33 PM
Hello,
I dont try to Have an orgasm every month. I went without sex for a year then had it a couple of months ago and still nothing. I have tried to relax and stuff. But still nothing. I will try again.Thanks for the input and replies. Bye.
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MamaCass
I dont try to Have an orgasm every month. I went without sex for a year then had it a couple of months ago and still nothing. I have tried to relax and stuff. But still nothing. I will try again.Thanks for the input and replies. Bye.
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MamaCass
lawtalkinguy
10-11-2002, 11:03 AM
according to my doctor friend only 15% of women can orgasm from intercourse alone.
if this is right then you are not strange or abnormal, but in the majority.
if this is right then you are not strange or abnormal, but in the majority.
PAISLEY
10-12-2002, 12:48 AM
Hi.
I had to have some manual stimulation as well during intercourse but it wasn't my clitoris. It was my breast. So, I suggest you get him to explore your upper body during intercourse and if he licks, kisses, sucks something you like, then let him know that so that he can be sure to do that everytime.
Just a suggestion.
:wave:
I had to have some manual stimulation as well during intercourse but it wasn't my clitoris. It was my breast. So, I suggest you get him to explore your upper body during intercourse and if he licks, kisses, sucks something you like, then let him know that so that he can be sure to do that everytime.
Just a suggestion.
:wave:
buck58
10-12-2002, 07:53 AM
I agree with paisly. I'm a guy but your parner should be able to work on "two" ares at the same time. I do it that way.
buck.
buck.